Dave Ramsey

And you guys are in your 60s?

Okay.

And so what kind of midlife crisis is this dude having at 60?

No, no, no, no, no.

Him doing crap without you guys being in agreement on it.

That's the problem.

You didn't go along with these purchases.

They just occurred.

For people that have been married 45 years, you all suck at communication.

So, Joan, I appreciate your frustration and even your anger, and those are justified.

But the problem is not the savings account.

That's the symptom.

The problem is you all are not aligned.

I agree, 100%.

You're not unified.

And so I don't think I'm hearing you say, because you said I went along with the boat, I don't think I'm hearing you say that you're opposed to enjoying some of the money.

What I do hear you say is you don't like being surprised and people running roughshod over your hard work while you're working two jobs.

And that's fair.

Yeah, that's fair.

But to compare your all's life in any stretch of the imagination to the 40-year-old workaholic, he's not even on the same planet, so you can't use that as a justification to do something stupid and lie to your wife.