Dave White

Because that's just such, like, trauma on top of trauma on top of trauma.

Because that's just such, like, trauma on top of trauma on top of trauma.

So she goes back, and does he step out again? Yeah.

So she goes back, and does he step out again? Yeah.

I can understand, I'm sure, like, I can't understand it. No. But I'm sure in her mind... It was important for them to have their father.

I can understand, I'm sure, like, I can't understand it. No. But I'm sure in her mind... It was important for them to have their father.

And we have to remember that we're looking at this through a lens where like we know so much. about so much now that we didn't know about back then.

And we have to remember that we're looking at this through a lens where like we know so much. about so much now that we didn't know about back then.

Well, I think when you have such a shitty parent, like you, all you want is for them to be better. Yeah. And all you want, like abandonment issues are insane. Like these, I can't imagine what these kids must have felt.

Well, I think when you have such a shitty parent, like you, all you want is for them to be better. Yeah. And all you want, like abandonment issues are insane. Like these, I can't imagine what these kids must have felt.

Yeah. And they do. And they do. Like I, I'm fine. I'm very well adjusted, but like I still struggle with that shit. I'm sure. So if you, if your parent is actually making the effort, that's all you want. So of course you're going to go along with it. I mean, obviously I've just never been in a position of somebody making effort.

Yeah. And they do. And they do. Like I, I'm fine. I'm very well adjusted, but like I still struggle with that shit. I'm sure. So if you, if your parent is actually making the effort, that's all you want. So of course you're going to go along with it. I mean, obviously I've just never been in a position of somebody making effort.

Well, no, they're always your parents when your parents suck. I think it's so hard to make those kind of decisions like when somebody is making an effort because you're always their child.

Well, no, they're always your parents when your parents suck. I think it's so hard to make those kind of decisions like when somebody is making an effort because you're always their child.

And you go back into the role of being the child.

And you go back into the role of being the child.

And feeling the things that you felt when you were a child, like wanting your parent.

And feeling the things that you felt when you were a child, like wanting your parent.

I'm just thinking of how therapy just was not a thing back then. Not really at all. I would be so different if I hadn't done years and years of therapy.

I'm just thinking of how therapy just was not a thing back then. Not really at all. I would be so different if I hadn't done years and years of therapy.