David Ghiyam

I said, no, this is today a little bit more of the real me. And now I'm actually building a new foundation in my life that's much more authentic to who I am. How so? There are people whose approval I wanted so badly. And I would, I know, I mean, look, I connected with your energy and I feel like we share so many similar qualities. I know exactly what somebody needs to hear to feel comfortable.

I said, no, this is today a little bit more of the real me. And now I'm actually building a new foundation in my life that's much more authentic to who I am. How so? There are people whose approval I wanted so badly. And I would, I know, I mean, look, I connected with your energy and I feel like we share so many similar qualities. I know exactly what somebody needs to hear to feel comfortable.

Sure. I know what buttons to stay away from. I know how to talk to them in a way that can just make them feel really good and comfortable. And I learned that many times I'm killing myself or sacrificing myself or I'm being inauthentic to just make them feel comfortable. Mm-hmm.

Sure. I know what buttons to stay away from. I know how to talk to them in a way that can just make them feel really good and comfortable. And I learned that many times I'm killing myself or sacrificing myself or I'm being inauthentic to just make them feel comfortable. Mm-hmm.

So now I'm just learning to be me and still be a giver, but to be in the way that maybe makes them uncomfortable in the moment, but I'm being true to myself. And these examples have been happening more and more. It happens with my parents. It happens with my friends. It happens with business partners and colleagues. I'm just learning to just show up as me versus who I think they want me to be.

So now I'm just learning to be me and still be a giver, but to be in the way that maybe makes them uncomfortable in the moment, but I'm being true to myself. And these examples have been happening more and more. It happens with my parents. It happens with my friends. It happens with business partners and colleagues. I'm just learning to just show up as me versus who I think they want me to be.

I think there's a prevailing belief system that we need to suffer to be successful. then that's incorrect. I think there's so much grind culture that's being thrown out there. And by the way, you do have to work hard and you do have to work consistently. But 99% of it is your belief system about what it takes to manifest.

I think there's a prevailing belief system that we need to suffer to be successful. then that's incorrect. I think there's so much grind culture that's being thrown out there. And by the way, you do have to work hard and you do have to work consistently. But 99% of it is your belief system about what it takes to manifest.

If you believe you must suffer to be successful, then that is the destiny you are creating. You will be successful, but you will only do it after you suffer. Elon Musk has the same hours in the day as we do. He thinks it's easy to colonize Mars. He thinks it's as easy to colonize Mars as we do, you know, maybe preparing a cup of coffee.

If you believe you must suffer to be successful, then that is the destiny you are creating. You will be successful, but you will only do it after you suffer. Elon Musk has the same hours in the day as we do. He thinks it's easy to colonize Mars. He thinks it's as easy to colonize Mars as we do, you know, maybe preparing a cup of coffee.

Because he thinks it's easy to colonize Mars, that consciousness creates a vessel that draws in the right engineers, that draws in the right ideas, that draws in the right lawmakers to change the laws to satisfy him. Of course, there are challenges, but he's loving even the challenges to an extent where it all seems easy.

Because he thinks it's easy to colonize Mars, that consciousness creates a vessel that draws in the right engineers, that draws in the right ideas, that draws in the right lawmakers to change the laws to satisfy him. Of course, there are challenges, but he's loving even the challenges to an extent where it all seems easy.

If I think something is hard or impossible, then I literally call in the entire universe to create a movie for me that makes it hard and impossible. There are people who every relationship they're in is a drama. It's difficult. It's hard. Every city I go to, I ask them, is dating hard in this city. They all say yes. They say, I say, which city is the hardest? They say, oh my God, I'm in New York.

If I think something is hard or impossible, then I literally call in the entire universe to create a movie for me that makes it hard and impossible. There are people who every relationship they're in is a drama. It's difficult. It's hard. Every city I go to, I ask them, is dating hard in this city. They all say yes. They say, I say, which city is the hardest? They say, oh my God, I'm in New York.

It's so hard to date here. I'm sure it's easier in Los Angeles. People in Los Angeles say, it's impossible to date here. I'm sure it's easier in New York. Everyone always says it's harder wherever they're at. Why is that? Because... Because they haven't been successful yet in their own city. They haven't been successful in their own city. And if I say it's hard to date, then...

It's so hard to date here. I'm sure it's easier in Los Angeles. People in Los Angeles say, it's impossible to date here. I'm sure it's easier in New York. Everyone always says it's harder wherever they're at. Why is that? Because... Because they haven't been successful yet in their own city. They haven't been successful in their own city. And if I say it's hard to date, then...

I don't have, it doesn't reflect poorly upon me the fact that I'm single. So I will tell everybody this narrative, it's hard to date, so that they don't judge me and I don't judge myself, then I can't find a man or woman. It's not me, it's everyone else. Everyone else, it's the city. It's the energy here. Everyone in LA is so superficial.

I don't have, it doesn't reflect poorly upon me the fact that I'm single. So I will tell everybody this narrative, it's hard to date, so that they don't judge me and I don't judge myself, then I can't find a man or woman. It's not me, it's everyone else. Everyone else, it's the city. It's the energy here. Everyone in LA is so superficial.

But the truth is, even if everyone in LA was superficial, if you earned your soulmate, that one person would appear right at your door. Think about it. There are serial killers in prison who are married. Crazy. They found their soulmate. If someone in a maximum security prison who has a reputation of a serial killer can find their soulmate, I'm sure you can too in Los Angeles.

But the truth is, even if everyone in LA was superficial, if you earned your soulmate, that one person would appear right at your door. Think about it. There are serial killers in prison who are married. Crazy. They found their soulmate. If someone in a maximum security prison who has a reputation of a serial killer can find their soulmate, I'm sure you can too in Los Angeles.