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David Ghiyam

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3390 total appearances

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The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Because there are two parts to the spiritual path. One is to become like the Creator, you need to become the giver. However, there's a second part. And the second part I ignored for whatever reason. I ignored the, okay, now... When you're in that vibration of giving, you need to create a vessel, a desire. You need to know what you are. You need to know who you are.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Because there are two parts to the spiritual path. One is to become like the Creator, you need to become the giver. However, there's a second part. And the second part I ignored for whatever reason. I ignored the, okay, now... When you're in that vibration of giving, you need to create a vessel, a desire. You need to know what you are. You need to know who you are.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

You need to know what you stand for. You need to know what makes you happy. You need to know what boundaries to put and what boundaries not to put in order to receive from the world. Because the Creator can't be revealed unless we receive. The creator created the creation to reveal the creator. But if we don't receive, we are literally shutting down creation.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

You need to know what you stand for. You need to know what makes you happy. You need to know what boundaries to put and what boundaries not to put in order to receive from the world. Because the Creator can't be revealed unless we receive. The creator created the creation to reveal the creator. But if we don't receive, we are literally shutting down creation.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

So this has been one of the hardest things for me to deprogram. And I have my Kabbalah colleagues I talk to regularly. I have coaches. I have mentors. I talk to you. I'm learning how to develop that part of me even as I date or as I kind of move on.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

So this has been one of the hardest things for me to deprogram. And I have my Kabbalah colleagues I talk to regularly. I have coaches. I have mentors. I talk to you. I'm learning how to develop that part of me even as I date or as I kind of move on.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

From the age of 20 until the day I got married, I didn't date. I didn't even look at one. Nothing. I didn't even kiss a woman. Come on. I'm telling you. Come on. You kissed someone. I didn't kiss one. For 10 years? Not until the night of my wedding. No, come on, dude. No way. That's it. 10 years. 10 years. Why? You didn't kiss one woman. Not one. Not even like a peck on the lips? No. Come on, man.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

From the age of 20 until the day I got married, I didn't date. I didn't even look at one. Nothing. I didn't even kiss a woman. Come on. I'm telling you. Come on. You kissed someone. I didn't kiss one. For 10 years? Not until the night of my wedding. No, come on, dude. No way. That's it. 10 years. 10 years. Why? You didn't kiss one woman. Not one. Not even like a peck on the lips? No. Come on, man.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Really? Not even a peck. Why? Now, that's extreme. I don't say, I don't think anybody else. You were monk mode. You were like, I'm in service, I'm a monk. Part of it, because I have an extreme personality, and I really wanted to be the best at whatever I do. Not until your wedding night? Not until my wedding night. Come on, dude. I never said this publicly, so let's see how this is going to go.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Really? Not even a peck. Why? Now, that's extreme. I don't say, I don't think anybody else. You were monk mode. You were like, I'm in service, I'm a monk. Part of it, because I have an extreme personality, and I really wanted to be the best at whatever I do. Not until your wedding night? Not until my wedding night. Come on, dude. I never said this publicly, so let's see how this is going to go.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

I mean, it's powerful. I don't know what kind of backlash I'm going to get after this, but what was my mindset? My mindset was, I have a spiritual platform. I've seen many people in my position fall. Abuse it or. Abuse it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Obviously I was surrounded by, you know, you're surrounded by.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

I mean, it's powerful. I don't know what kind of backlash I'm going to get after this, but what was my mindset? My mindset was, I have a spiritual platform. I've seen many people in my position fall. Abuse it or. Abuse it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Obviously I was surrounded by, you know, you're surrounded by.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Correct. And then there's transfer, because you're there for them. There's transference. There's all these things that happen. And I just said the simplest thing for me to do, and I told the creator, I said, creator, when I'm ready for my soulmate, She will live here. And I do not want to think about dating. I don't want to even turn on that part of me. And look, did it work for me?

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Correct. And then there's transfer, because you're there for them. There's transference. There's all these things that happen. And I just said the simplest thing for me to do, and I told the creator, I said, creator, when I'm ready for my soulmate, She will live here. And I do not want to think about dating. I don't want to even turn on that part of me. And look, did it work for me?

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

It did work for me because I met the most incredible woman in the world and we're born on the same day, same year. I'm two hours older. February 11th, 1984. Our moms were in labor at the same time, two different parts of the world. And we attracted each other vibrationally because we were meant to come together and to create everything we've created.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

It did work for me because I met the most incredible woman in the world and we're born on the same day, same year. I'm two hours older. February 11th, 1984. Our moms were in labor at the same time, two different parts of the world. And we attracted each other vibrationally because we were meant to come together and to create everything we've created.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

And I knew on day one when I met her, she's the one, end of story. I didn't care about anything else. And that was it. We got married.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

And I knew on day one when I met her, she's the one, end of story. I didn't care about anything else. And that was it. We got married.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

In a romantic way, yes. However, she... Here's the thing about soulmates. There are many versions of soulmates. There are many aspects to soulmates. There are many parts of our soul that must match up with other souls. I think everyone's focused on the one, or the this, or the that. I like to shift my focus to I am the one.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

In a romantic way, yes. However, she... Here's the thing about soulmates. There are many versions of soulmates. There are many aspects to soulmates. There are many parts of our soul that must match up with other souls. I think everyone's focused on the one, or the this, or the that. I like to shift my focus to I am the one.