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David Ghiyam

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

journey of miracle after miracle to create, you know, what's today married with organics. That was the moment. So the first 10 years of my life, it was about how to just create that spiritual vessel. And I believe, you know, I don't know how many people, in the millions of people I got to connect with and touch and whatever. And also not having received for myself, I think helped tremendously.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

journey of miracle after miracle to create, you know, what's today married with organics. That was the moment. So the first 10 years of my life, it was about how to just create that spiritual vessel. And I believe, you know, I don't know how many people, in the millions of people I got to connect with and touch and whatever. And also not having received for myself, I think helped tremendously.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

It helps to become pure because you're not thinking about well, what am I going to take from this person? Or how much are you going to pay me? It was really a beautiful thing. I do believe without a shadow of a doubt, those 10 years created the vessel for the- For abundance. For the vessel of abundance that came through Mary Woods, which we'll talk about in the next part. That's powerful.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

It helps to become pure because you're not thinking about well, what am I going to take from this person? Or how much are you going to pay me? It was really a beautiful thing. I do believe without a shadow of a doubt, those 10 years created the vessel for the- For abundance. For the vessel of abundance that came through Mary Woods, which we'll talk about in the next part. That's powerful.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

How do we get in the vibration of love to be able to get the love all we want to receive? First thing that comes to mind is you can only receive what you believe you deserve to receive. That's the first question I would ask all of us, because you could read all of the books about love and dating and relationships. You could be on all the apps. You could have the best photos.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

How do we get in the vibration of love to be able to get the love all we want to receive? First thing that comes to mind is you can only receive what you believe you deserve to receive. That's the first question I would ask all of us, because you could read all of the books about love and dating and relationships. You could be on all the apps. You could have the best photos.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

You could have the best profile. You could have a matchmaker out there scouring the earth to find your soulmate. You could have a beautiful physique and have amazing personality. However, your belief system about receiving is your capacity to receive. This goes for financial well-being, but especially love. And I ask this question to myself and I tell everyone to ask it to themselves.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

You could have the best profile. You could have a matchmaker out there scouring the earth to find your soulmate. You could have a beautiful physique and have amazing personality. However, your belief system about receiving is your capacity to receive. This goes for financial well-being, but especially love. And I ask this question to myself and I tell everyone to ask it to themselves.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

What do you believe? you deserve to receive. And it's very interesting because if you really look deep down inside, it's not just like one answer. It's a pie chart. If I take this pie chart, there's probably 50% that believes I deserve to be in a healthy relationship. There's probably 20% that you're not aware of that believes you should be in an abusive one.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

What do you believe? you deserve to receive. And it's very interesting because if you really look deep down inside, it's not just like one answer. It's a pie chart. If I take this pie chart, there's probably 50% that believes I deserve to be in a healthy relationship. There's probably 20% that you're not aware of that believes you should be in an abusive one.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Maybe they did something shameful in their life. that they're not aware of consciously. And what do we do with shame? We hide and we diminish ourselves. So we subconsciously want someone to diminish us in order to not feel guilty about the shame. So the way we say it is 20% that kind of desire. 50% could just be a really healthy desire for love. Then there is maybe 20% that I want my freedom.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Maybe they did something shameful in their life. that they're not aware of consciously. And what do we do with shame? We hide and we diminish ourselves. So we subconsciously want someone to diminish us in order to not feel guilty about the shame. So the way we say it is 20% that kind of desire. 50% could just be a really healthy desire for love. Then there is maybe 20% that I want my freedom.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

And I have a belief system that relationships equal a loss of freedom.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

And I have a belief system that relationships equal a loss of freedom.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Correct. Maybe there's another 10% that believes that relationships are a really beautiful thing to help you grow spiritually, which is a very positive desire. You look at this pie chart, you will see that this pie chart represents your entire dating life.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

Correct. Maybe there's another 10% that believes that relationships are a really beautiful thing to help you grow spiritually, which is a very positive desire. You look at this pie chart, you will see that this pie chart represents your entire dating life.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

you will see that maybe the 50%, because it's the bigger part of the pie, you go in these relationships that last three to six months and they're very healthy, but then the 20% of I don't deserve kicks in, or the 20% of I need my freedom kicks in. And when that desire kicks in, you start to self-sabotage. You're not aware of it. So you start to become avoidant.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

you will see that maybe the 50%, because it's the bigger part of the pie, you go in these relationships that last three to six months and they're very healthy, but then the 20% of I don't deserve kicks in, or the 20% of I need my freedom kicks in. And when that desire kicks in, you start to self-sabotage. You're not aware of it. So you start to become avoidant.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

You start to do things that are not in line with what you were before. And here's the thing, it's not about judging anyone. I tell people, I'm very curious always, if someone was loving you for three to six months and then all of a sudden they're not present and they're avoidant, they're not a narcissist. They're not, oh, he love-bombed me and he manipulated me.

The School of Greatness
The #1 Cause of Breakups & The Spiritual Secret To Attracting Healthy Love | David Ghiyam

You start to do things that are not in line with what you were before. And here's the thing, it's not about judging anyone. I tell people, I'm very curious always, if someone was loving you for three to six months and then all of a sudden they're not present and they're avoidant, they're not a narcissist. They're not, oh, he love-bombed me and he manipulated me.