Dax

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah. It feels like this graveyard of past relationships, but like they're still alive and you still could like stay in touch kind of, but it just feels like, I don't know, like it's never gonna happen. And I don't know if I want it to happen. Like, I feel like if I was in a room with any one of them, It would immediately be like it used to be, and it would feel... You know what I mean?

Yeah. It feels like this graveyard of past relationships, but like they're still alive and you still could like stay in touch kind of, but it just feels like, I don't know, like it's never gonna happen. And I don't know if I want it to happen. Like, I feel like if I was in a room with any one of them, It would immediately be like it used to be, and it would feel... You know what I mean?

But it's like we don't live near each other, or if we do, we're just living very different lives. Yeah, like you said, if we don't talk every week, it's just very hard to imagine still having... That friendship. I don't know. It's weird. It's kind of weird. Yeah, I think like you, I just never expected it to happen.

But it's like we don't live near each other, or if we do, we're just living very different lives. Yeah, like you said, if we don't talk every week, it's just very hard to imagine still having... That friendship. I don't know. It's weird. It's kind of weird. Yeah, I think like you, I just never expected it to happen.

I don't know what I expected, but all those people I would have thought I'd be close with forever. And I never would have thought I'd have like a handful of them because I've just been alive long enough. Yeah.

I don't know what I expected, but all those people I would have thought I'd be close with forever. And I never would have thought I'd have like a handful of them because I've just been alive long enough. Yeah.

That's the weird part. I think that's what I'm really hung up on in the conversation with Casey last night. It's like, it really wouldn't take that much. It's not that much effort. Why don't I put it forward? Because it's really like, it just feels like the easiest thing in the world. And those were valuable relationships I had. But I just continue to not do it and almost actively avoid it.

That's the weird part. I think that's what I'm really hung up on in the conversation with Casey last night. It's like, it really wouldn't take that much. It's not that much effort. Why don't I put it forward? Because it's really like, it just feels like the easiest thing in the world. And those were valuable relationships I had. But I just continue to not do it and almost actively avoid it.

I don't know. It's interesting.

I don't know. It's interesting.

Just one of those things about getting older, I guess. A lot of bad things about getting older. They say, like, time goes faster the older you get. Have you heard that? I don't want to talk about that.

Just one of those things about getting older, I guess. A lot of bad things about getting older. They say, like, time goes faster the older you get. Have you heard that? I don't want to talk about that.

Okay. Well, the one thing I was going to say is it just already feels like it's going so fast. So, like, how can it go faster? Anyway, I'll stop.

Okay. Well, the one thing I was going to say is it just already feels like it's going so fast. So, like, how can it go faster? Anyway, I'll stop.

I do remember now, Casey and I have talked about this as an antidote to our kids just disappearing from our lives and it going so fast. It's like... Things like a year feels slow.

I do remember now, Casey and I have talked about this as an antidote to our kids just disappearing from our lives and it going so fast. It's like... Things like a year feels slow.

If you can, if you have like a lot of memories and you don't really make memories unless you break out of your normal routine, like basically you have to like have experiences, do things that are different out of the normal. So the more, yeah, like you said, the more you can do that, you have these markers that kind of like stretch back over the year and it slows that year down.

If you can, if you have like a lot of memories and you don't really make memories unless you break out of your normal routine, like basically you have to like have experiences, do things that are different out of the normal. So the more, yeah, like you said, the more you can do that, you have these markers that kind of like stretch back over the year and it slows that year down.