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Deante’ Kyle

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Podcast Appearances

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

Other communities holding themselves accountable publicly is a fairly new thing compared to us.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

And we always say, well, you know, we need to stick together like the Mexicans or we need to stick together like this set of people or that people.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

But what we don't understand is that they're operating like secret societies.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

They only show their highlights in order to be incomparable to the black community.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

The reason why they only showcase their highlights is because they don't want to be compared to us.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

They don't want to be seen as flawed.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

And by always, you know, showing us the best parts of themselves and never discussing, you know, the family dynamics, never discussing the abuse practices, never discussing the anti-blackness that permeates those communities, even though there are dark-skinned people that live in those communities that are a part of those communities and those cultures and that heritage.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

Um, the reason why they don't want to speak about those things is because whiteness is pristine.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

It needs to be flawless.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

It needs to be without a blemish.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

That's the way that they uphold whiteness is by making it seem perfect.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

The way they uphold whiteness is to make it seem to be sought after.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

You know what I mean?

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

If it's flawed and we are flawed, then I don't need to seek after it.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

You know, I'd be good where I'm at.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

In order to assimilate into whiteness, you have to take on that practice of seeming pristine.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

Because in the eyes of whiteness, everybody is flawed except them.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

So when we look at these communities, specifically the white community, and base it on evidence and base it on historical fact, this is one of the most flawed communities.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 132 - Junk in the Trunk

And everywhere they go, they engage further in the flaw of their character.