Deepika Chopra

And so we hear that enough, see it enough, feel it enough.

And oftentimes these can be silent cues in how people react.

And again, sometimes they are coming from our own insecurities and inability to live in discomfort, but whatever it is, we are taught this at a young age.

And so then we get

to a place like college.

And that makes perfect sense why there would be so much paddling.

I see in elementary school, so much paddling underneath the surface.

Performance on the top surface and wanting to take less space and just make sure things like you're easygoing and the idea of always being in forward motion.

And I think that's really important to be in forward motion, but we all, in order to truly be in forward motion,

you can't discount what's happening below the surface.

And the only way to change that again is to help yourself by being a model around other people and by giving other people in your own small networks.

And really, this is something that you can do literally today in your own small community and network.

It is trying to challenge yourself

to allow the people around you to experience their full human range of emotions and try to sit in that discomfort and not discount or vilify that experience.

Yeah.

So it's really to illustrate this idea that I think we spend a lot of time, especially when we're talking about this term manifestation, which nowadays is so mainstream.

And I think most people understand the concept of it and some people define it so well.

really with neuroscience in mind and a lot of other people don't and i think there's some missing pieces from a neuro and brain standpoint that are really imperative for people to understand if they're talking about that one of the things that i love doing is asking people this is really rating something that they want and putting it up against something that they really expect to occur and so

I will sometimes ask a large group of people, how many of you guys would want to win the lottery?

Given the chance, would you want to win the lottery?