Deirdre O'Kane

You'd book a Captain America's or whatever.

Yeah.

And you'd bop along, you'd say, I'll just get the side salad, please.

Like, you wouldn't eat, you'd just forget.

And whoever looked the oldest would say to the waitress.

Yes, I think he did tell me this before.

I remember, yeah, the Captain America days.

Well, I had no awareness of being blanked.

I met him in Tampa Bar.

Ah!

chat to him and I think I went on one date and it was only when people were just starting to have phones so he had a phone I think he was a bit posh and my friend had a phone and then maybe I got a phone that week or you know I didn't have a phone when I first knew him I don't think so she had his he had her number or something but he just stopped texting me back

So I didn't cross, didn't cross my mind that he was done with me or whatever.

I was like, hey.

Just concentrate.

Go check it in.

Yeah, because I think it takes a minute.

And then I'd be like, what's happening?

I'll phone him now.

Yeah, exactly.

I mean, it must, honestly, if you are, if you are ghosted by someone.