Deontay Kyle

But frequently seen during work meetings and events.

For months, I was basically living at his house, sleeping there every night, and it caused serious problems with my family.

When I tried to be home more, he got pouty or said, you can spend the day there, but I need you with me every night.

If I push back, it always came back to my past.

Before we were official, I slept with someone while we were talking.

I met up with an ex after he told me we weren't together because he hadn't officially asked me yet.

That gets thrown in my face constantly, and it feels like I'm on a permanent probation, like I owe him access to me to make up for it.

Well, there's a problem.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Okay.

So he told you that y'all weren't together.

Which means that you're single.

Mm-hmm.

And sleeping with somebody while you're single... Perfectly fine.

Sounds like you're making an autonomous decision.

Sounds like this brother is controlling.

Mm.

He's also pressured me to move into an apartment with him and has argued that if I didn't, he'd leave me.

Oof.