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Deontay Kyle

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
5481 total appearances

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Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

Yeah, I'm not going to say your name, but you know who you are. Initials A.M., please reach out to me. We're going to figure out what we can do to you to help you with the transportation part. Everything else because being in a place that doesn't have public transportation without a whip is extremely stressful.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

And we don't want you relying on people that you have a tumultuous relationship with for transportation because that's some shit that niggas will hold over your head. And luckily she just sent this four days ago so we can get this going quick. I think you should do what you need to do though.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

And we don't want you relying on people that you have a tumultuous relationship with for transportation because that's some shit that niggas will hold over your head. And luckily she just sent this four days ago so we can get this going quick. I think you should do what you need to do though.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

I think you on your path you on your path to career and you know the things that you need to do to achieve that and this is one of them and you're going to be fine you're going to be good it's 8 weeks and you're 21 you got a long life to live you're already independent you already got your own shit going on this is just going to further your independence and further your ability to do for yourself so don't overthink it just go ahead and get that shit going and we'll see what we can do on our end to help yeah for sure thank you for reaching out

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

I think you on your path you on your path to career and you know the things that you need to do to achieve that and this is one of them and you're going to be fine you're going to be good it's 8 weeks and you're 21 you got a long life to live you're already independent you already got your own shit going on this is just going to further your independence and further your ability to do for yourself so don't overthink it just go ahead and get that shit going and we'll see what we can do on our end to help yeah for sure thank you for reaching out

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

There's a dead cat in my attic. All right. What's up, big cat? What's up, Deontay? I wanted to be... What's up, Deontay and Big Cat? I wanted to be quick. This story is strange but meaningful. My roommate is in his 30s. He hoards everything, information, and anything that has sentimental value. He saves jars, magazines, and little things that have meaning to him.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

There's a dead cat in my attic. All right. What's up, big cat? What's up, Deontay? I wanted to be... What's up, Deontay and Big Cat? I wanted to be quick. This story is strange but meaningful. My roommate is in his 30s. He hoards everything, information, and anything that has sentimental value. He saves jars, magazines, and little things that have meaning to him.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

So your roommate is white. Has to be. I mean, well, hoarding is a mental illness, though. It's not.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

So your roommate is white. Has to be. I mean, well, hoarding is a mental illness, though. It's not.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

They're mostly white. Oh, shit. What happened? He was in a box in the living room for two days. I didn't want to bury him because that's his cat and he will take care of it. The next day I come home from work and it's gone. I'm thinking he did something with it. A week goes by and I asked him if he buried his cat. He replied, no, he's in the attic. What? Get out of there.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

They're mostly white. Oh, shit. What happened? He was in a box in the living room for two days. I didn't want to bury him because that's his cat and he will take care of it. The next day I come home from work and it's gone. I'm thinking he did something with it. A week goes by and I asked him if he buried his cat. He replied, no, he's in the attic. What? Get out of there.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

The next sentence, I can't do this. As a black man, I know holding on to things is detrimental to one's health. He's a beautiful man, funny, talented, confident, but he hoards away his trauma and doesn't deal with it. I've met plenty of men like this. They've experienced so much trauma in their life that eventually it started away as another thing to put in the attic.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

The next sentence, I can't do this. As a black man, I know holding on to things is detrimental to one's health. He's a beautiful man, funny, talented, confident, but he hoards away his trauma and doesn't deal with it. I've met plenty of men like this. They've experienced so much trauma in their life that eventually it started away as another thing to put in the attic.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

How can we get these men to unpack and deal with their issues? In my case, literally, it's gotten too much for me to handle. Maybe you drop some knowledge to get to them. You know, no, this is a mental illness. Here's the thing that we don't talk about when it comes to trauma. Trauma makes some people really crack. You know what I'm saying?

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

How can we get these men to unpack and deal with their issues? In my case, literally, it's gotten too much for me to handle. Maybe you drop some knowledge to get to them. You know, no, this is a mental illness. Here's the thing that we don't talk about when it comes to trauma. Trauma makes some people really crack. You know what I'm saying?

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

To reference something we talked about earlier, a new mental illness being discovered during a dust bowl because that is a traumatic experience. People are cracking under the pressure. And here's another thing. Just, you know, To visualize the situation, right? It starts as one thing. It starts you putting one thing in the attic. And there's a lot of space in the attic.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

To reference something we talked about earlier, a new mental illness being discovered during a dust bowl because that is a traumatic experience. People are cracking under the pressure. And here's another thing. Just, you know, To visualize the situation, right? It starts as one thing. It starts you putting one thing in the attic. And there's a lot of space in the attic.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

By the time you fill the attic up, you don't want to unpack all that shit. Damn. And then you just keep adding. Because it becomes too much to unpack, so you just pack on more. And I think in a situation like this, definitely a therapist has to be involved.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

By the time you fill the attic up, you don't want to unpack all that shit. Damn. And then you just keep adding. Because it becomes too much to unpack, so you just pack on more. And I think in a situation like this, definitely a therapist has to be involved.

Grits and Eggs Podcast
Episode 53 - Fear Itself

Right? We need to go, like, we need to get hoarders on the phone. Because a dead cat is crazy. In the attic? Throwing the cat in the attic is insanity. Nigga took him up. He could have just put him in the ground. He took him upstairs. I'm sure the attic smells. Oh, fucking disgusting. There's a decomposing body in there. Yeah. And not to mention the magic maggots.