Deontay Kyle

So what's going to happen? You have another daughter then what? You have another daughter then what? And then she's messed up from the waist down. Yeah. Or like even worse. Oh, yeah. Because C-section is complicated. Yeah. She had to get cut open. Yeah.

Yeah. Fellas, we got to do better with that. Yeah. Look, man. When it comes to the women and their bodies... And if you really love her, you got to put that to the side.

Yeah. Fellas, we got to do better with that. Yeah. Look, man. When it comes to the women and their bodies... And if you really love her, you got to put that to the side.

Okay? Because she risked her life to have your daughter. Right. Already. Yeah. A spinal tap is crazy. Insane, bro. To C-section on your first child. Yeah. Her fear is valid as fuck. Yeah. You didn't have to go through it. You didn't have to deal with that experience. You didn't have to deal with it. That wasn't your body being cut open. And you didn't have to deal with that pain.

Okay? Because she risked her life to have your daughter. Right. Already. Yeah. A spinal tap is crazy. Insane, bro. To C-section on your first child. Yeah. Her fear is valid as fuck. Yeah. You didn't have to go through it. You didn't have to deal with that experience. You didn't have to deal with it. That wasn't your body being cut open. And you didn't have to deal with that pain.

On top of the pain and being a mother to a newborn, which is extremely demanding. I think, look, to have the thoughts, to be disappointed because things changed and you had expectations. Hey, man, expectations is always going to leave you disappointed. But what is more important here? The safety of your wife? The safety of your wife. You know she's down and pouring her all into your daughter.

On top of the pain and being a mother to a newborn, which is extremely demanding. I think, look, to have the thoughts, to be disappointed because things changed and you had expectations. Hey, man, expectations is always going to leave you disappointed. But what is more important here? The safety of your wife? The safety of your wife. You know she's down and pouring her all into your daughter.

Or is it, I have to have a son?

Or is it, I have to have a son?

Yeah. Love your child, bro. Focus on your child. And you didn't lose anything.

Yeah. Love your child, bro. Focus on your child. And you didn't lose anything.

Things change because the situation changed. Because if she had a healthy and an easy birth, as easy as it can be. And it's hard on black women. And it's hard on women. And then the medical system is terrible to black women. So why even, hey man, let that go.

Things change because the situation changed. Because if she had a healthy and an easy birth, as easy as it can be. And it's hard on black women. And it's hard on women. And then the medical system is terrible to black women. So why even, hey man, let that go.

This is selfish and this is you not being able to deal with

This is selfish and this is you not being able to deal with

having to pivot because things changed it's not personal she doesn't want to not she's suggesting that you should have babies with other women with somebody else just so you can have a son is a sign of how much she loves you and she's considering but also a sign that she is she is not willing to risk her life for this you have a beautiful healthy daughter y'all had the vision the things changed

having to pivot because things changed it's not personal she doesn't want to not she's suggesting that you should have babies with other women with somebody else just so you can have a son is a sign of how much she loves you and she's considering but also a sign that she is she is not willing to risk her life for this you have a beautiful healthy daughter y'all had the vision the things changed

Things change. Life don't always go as planned. It doesn't go as planned. And you pivot from your expectations. And you pivot from the vision you had and pour your vision into your daughter. And if it's that serious, adopt a little boy. Yeah. Plenty of little black boys that don't get adopted. Plenty of black boys that don't get adopted. If we talking that, and that could be your legacy.

Things change. Life don't always go as planned. It doesn't go as planned. And you pivot from your expectations. And you pivot from the vision you had and pour your vision into your daughter. And if it's that serious, adopt a little boy. Yeah. Plenty of little black boys that don't get adopted. Plenty of black boys that don't get adopted. If we talking that, and that could be your legacy.

It may not be blood, but what would make you closer? Yeah, man. I don't feel about you how I felt about the other one. You seem like a good guy. But you're just being selfish. And you're let down because you had expectations. And when we have expectations, we're leaving so much room for ourselves to be let down. I wish you and your wife the best. Go kiss your daughter.