Derek

Yeah. When you had the lump in the throat.

Yeah. When you had the lump in the throat.

OK, but like you could be with those were the only two possibilities, regardless of his level of anger. I feel like you can say that, you know, well, listen, he, I think any logical person could think to themselves, maybe I didn't handle it the best way. Maybe they're upset about it. Fair. But like, we've only been dating for a month and like, I mean, I definitely didn't do anything wrong.

OK, but like you could be with those were the only two possibilities, regardless of his level of anger. I feel like you can say that, you know, well, listen, he, I think any logical person could think to themselves, maybe I didn't handle it the best way. Maybe they're upset about it. Fair. But like, we've only been dating for a month and like, I mean, I definitely didn't do anything wrong.

OK, but like you could be with those were the only two possibilities, regardless of his level of anger. I feel like you can say that, you know, well, listen, he, I think any logical person could think to themselves, maybe I didn't handle it the best way. Maybe they're upset about it. Fair. But like, we've only been dating for a month and like, I mean, I definitely didn't do anything wrong.

You know, there might've been a miscommunication. We can handle it. But like, I know I didn't, you know what I'm saying? Like there might be an apology. You know, I'm not saying you're supposed to workshop this in your mind while at the wedding, but if you have a lump in your throat, like you can literally just be like, I mean- I didn't fuck another guy.

You know, there might've been a miscommunication. We can handle it. But like, I know I didn't, you know what I'm saying? Like there might be an apology. You know, I'm not saying you're supposed to workshop this in your mind while at the wedding, but if you have a lump in your throat, like you can literally just be like, I mean- I didn't fuck another guy.

You know, there might've been a miscommunication. We can handle it. But like, I know I didn't, you know what I'm saying? Like there might be an apology. You know, I'm not saying you're supposed to workshop this in your mind while at the wedding, but if you have a lump in your throat, like you can literally just be like, I mean- I didn't fuck another guy.

I mean, what do I, you know, I didn't like what I don't. Yeah. Like I didn't do any, you know, the lump in the throat is this like, you know, and I get it. Like I know I'm kind of reducing this down, but like my point is you can't, emotional intelligence is like the ability to, to process the triggering emotion that we all feel, that fight or flight emotion, that calling our child to take over.

I mean, what do I, you know, I didn't like what I don't. Yeah. Like I didn't do any, you know, the lump in the throat is this like, you know, and I get it. Like I know I'm kind of reducing this down, but like my point is you can't, emotional intelligence is like the ability to, to process the triggering emotion that we all feel, that fight or flight emotion, that calling our child to take over.

I mean, what do I, you know, I didn't like what I don't. Yeah. Like I didn't do any, you know, the lump in the throat is this like, you know, and I get it. Like I know I'm kind of reducing this down, but like my point is you can't, emotional intelligence is like the ability to, to process the triggering emotion that we all feel, that fight or flight emotion, that calling our child to take over.

And then working through that and then having your adult self kind of be like, hey, by the way, We're not, we're not six anymore. He might have a right to be upset. I can definitely talk to him. Maybe there's some things I could have communicated better, but like, I still have the right to have fun at my friend's wedding.

And then working through that and then having your adult self kind of be like, hey, by the way, We're not, we're not six anymore. He might have a right to be upset. I can definitely talk to him. Maybe there's some things I could have communicated better, but like, I still have the right to have fun at my friend's wedding.

And then working through that and then having your adult self kind of be like, hey, by the way, We're not, we're not six anymore. He might have a right to be upset. I can definitely talk to him. Maybe there's some things I could have communicated better, but like, I still have the right to have fun at my friend's wedding.

And I'm sure he will understand because he's an adult and like, well, this, this will be a step in the right direction. Even if it caused a little frustration on his part, like you should be able to workshop that and then go have fun.

And I'm sure he will understand because he's an adult and like, well, this, this will be a step in the right direction. Even if it caused a little frustration on his part, like you should be able to workshop that and then go have fun.

And I'm sure he will understand because he's an adult and like, well, this, this will be a step in the right direction. Even if it caused a little frustration on his part, like you should be able to workshop that and then go have fun.

a lack of safety the sense that he would just be done over something small like that and so that's harder but like yeah again you still have to be i have the control you have to be able to be like well that would be crazy if he would leave me for this then like i guess he's not who i thought he was yeah like that you know what i'm saying like because it would be crazy you know

a lack of safety the sense that he would just be done over something small like that and so that's harder but like yeah again you still have to be i have the control you have to be able to be like well that would be crazy if he would leave me for this then like i guess he's not who i thought he was yeah like that you know what i'm saying like because it would be crazy you know

a lack of safety the sense that he would just be done over something small like that and so that's harder but like yeah again you still have to be i have the control you have to be able to be like well that would be crazy if he would leave me for this then like i guess he's not who i thought he was yeah like that you know what i'm saying like because it would be crazy you know