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Derek

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
7547 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Like, thinking about situationship, as ridiculous as they are, and as much of a waste of time as they are, you can still really get to know someone to a level of developing emotional intimacy, even if it is a bit one-sided. It certainly has its limits because it's often one-sided, but you can really do that.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And if he is saying that in this period of time where you dated another guy and it really fucked with him and then he, you know, realized that he made a mistake and then you break up with him and he's just knocking on your door, it's just like, why is it so hard to be like, listen, I don't know if this is going to work or not, but like, let's just be boyfriend and girlfriend.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And if he is saying that in this period of time where you dated another guy and it really fucked with him and then he, you know, realized that he made a mistake and then you break up with him and he's just knocking on your door, it's just like, why is it so hard to be like, listen, I don't know if this is going to work or not, but like, let's just be boyfriend and girlfriend.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And if he is saying that in this period of time where you dated another guy and it really fucked with him and then he, you know, realized that he made a mistake and then you break up with him and he's just knocking on your door, it's just like, why is it so hard to be like, listen, I don't know if this is going to work or not, but like, let's just be boyfriend and girlfriend.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I don't know, maybe in a week we'll break up, but like, You know, I do know I spent the past, you know, six months regretting my decision to let you go. And then you date another guy. And I thought I was never going to another chance. So like, I want to show you what it's like to be a boyfriend. And I want to show you how I can be. And let's get to know each other.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I don't know, maybe in a week we'll break up, but like, You know, I do know I spent the past, you know, six months regretting my decision to let you go. And then you date another guy. And I thought I was never going to another chance. So like, I want to show you what it's like to be a boyfriend. And I want to show you how I can be. And let's get to know each other.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I don't know, maybe in a week we'll break up, but like, You know, I do know I spent the past, you know, six months regretting my decision to let you go. And then you date another guy. And I thought I was never going to another chance. So like, I want to show you what it's like to be a boyfriend. And I want to show you how I can be. And let's get to know each other.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Let's develop our emotional, like, why can't he do that?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Let's develop our emotional, like, why can't he do that?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Let's develop our emotional, like, why can't he do that?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

How much do you cater to his needs versus him catering to yours?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

How much do you cater to his needs versus him catering to yours?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

How much do you cater to his needs versus him catering to yours?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

If this was the first guy, if this was a guy that you were describing that you've only known for two months, then I would say give it time. But this isn't a guy you've only known for two months. This is a guy that you have a lot of history with.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

If this was the first guy, if this was a guy that you were describing that you've only known for two months, then I would say give it time. But this isn't a guy you've only known for two months. This is a guy that you have a lot of history with.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

If this was the first guy, if this was a guy that you were describing that you've only known for two months, then I would say give it time. But this isn't a guy you've only known for two months. This is a guy that you have a lot of history with.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's always interesting because when people are in relationships, bad ones usually, not that people are usually in bad ones, but when people are in bad ones, they usually will stay in bad relationships because... I know he's been dating for so long, you know?