Derek

You don't even have to like analyze or ask your friends, be like, is this an excuse? Like take him, take him at his word. But if you're really taking him at his word, what does that say about him?

You don't even have to like analyze or ask your friends, be like, is this an excuse? Like take him, take him at his word. But if you're really taking him at his word, what does that say about him?

Or that he's like kind of a weak person because some guy who feels pressured by some girl, he's spent, if you add up all the time, like how many months have you guys been dating? If you include all the times your situations have started. Like 10 months. 10 months. In 10 months, he feels pressure because the girl he's been dating for 10 months just wants to know if he can be his boyfriend.

Or that he's like kind of a weak person because some guy who feels pressured by some girl, he's spent, if you add up all the time, like how many months have you guys been dating? If you include all the times your situations have started. Like 10 months. 10 months. In 10 months, he feels pressure because the girl he's been dating for 10 months just wants to know if he can be his boyfriend.

Or that he's like kind of a weak person because some guy who feels pressured by some girl, he's spent, if you add up all the time, like how many months have you guys been dating? If you include all the times your situations have started. Like 10 months. 10 months. In 10 months, he feels pressure because the girl he's been dating for 10 months just wants to know if he can be his boyfriend.

And then keep in mind, you guys can break up literally the next day. And that's too much for him?

And then keep in mind, you guys can break up literally the next day. And that's too much for him?

And then keep in mind, you guys can break up literally the next day. And that's too much for him?

Is that the man that you want protecting your children who feels pressured by a label? No.

Is that the man that you want protecting your children who feels pressured by a label? No.

Is that the man that you want protecting your children who feels pressured by a label? No.

Like what kind of, like, imagine the, but seriously, you know, that's what I'm saying. Like, obviously he probably is just full of shit and you know, whatever. But the point is you can protect your emotional energy and waste a lot less time by just taking people at their word and seeing them for who they are by the way they act and how they described their limitations to you.

Like what kind of, like, imagine the, but seriously, you know, that's what I'm saying. Like, obviously he probably is just full of shit and you know, whatever. But the point is you can protect your emotional energy and waste a lot less time by just taking people at their word and seeing them for who they are by the way they act and how they described their limitations to you.

Like what kind of, like, imagine the, but seriously, you know, that's what I'm saying. Like, obviously he probably is just full of shit and you know, whatever. But the point is you can protect your emotional energy and waste a lot less time by just taking people at their word and seeing them for who they are by the way they act and how they described their limitations to you.

You know, you should treat him like the boyfriend you want and the person he is. And what I mean by that is it's like in terms of your standards, your standards should be this is the boyfriend I want. Not, well, this, but like he can't do it because he's avoidant. Well, then that's a him problem.

You know, you should treat him like the boyfriend you want and the person he is. And what I mean by that is it's like in terms of your standards, your standards should be this is the boyfriend I want. Not, well, this, but like he can't do it because he's avoidant. Well, then that's a him problem.

You know, you should treat him like the boyfriend you want and the person he is. And what I mean by that is it's like in terms of your standards, your standards should be this is the boyfriend I want. Not, well, this, but like he can't do it because he's avoidant. Well, then that's a him problem.

And then in terms of like treat him how he acts, well, if he acts like a guy who can't handle pressure, then ask yourself, do I want a guy who can't handle pressure to to be my man.

And then in terms of like treat him how he acts, well, if he acts like a guy who can't handle pressure, then ask yourself, do I want a guy who can't handle pressure to to be my man.

And then in terms of like treat him how he acts, well, if he acts like a guy who can't handle pressure, then ask yourself, do I want a guy who can't handle pressure to to be my man.