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Derek

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
7547 total appearances

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

You don't think competitors can't help each other out?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

You don't think competitors can't help each other out?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

You don't think competitors can't help each other out?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah. But you, you, you hear me say there's exceptions to every rule. And this is a very unique situation where you're in the exact same line of work and, and you're both career oriented, ambitious people who are,

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah. But you, you, you hear me say there's exceptions to every rule. And this is a very unique situation where you're in the exact same line of work and, and you're both career oriented, ambitious people who are,

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah. But you, you, you hear me say there's exceptions to every rule. And this is a very unique situation where you're in the exact same line of work and, and you're both career oriented, ambitious people who are,

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

potentially could be put in a position to compete for the same dream job and in that situation that doesn't apply to most people yeah it's you know it's hard you you have to consider the variables for people like well your man should it's like well like maybe yeah sure i mean like but like when it comes to that for me my brain was just like you kind of have to try to separate that

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

potentially could be put in a position to compete for the same dream job and in that situation that doesn't apply to most people yeah it's you know it's hard you you have to consider the variables for people like well your man should it's like well like maybe yeah sure i mean like but like when it comes to that for me my brain was just like you kind of have to try to separate that

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

potentially could be put in a position to compete for the same dream job and in that situation that doesn't apply to most people yeah it's you know it's hard you you have to consider the variables for people like well your man should it's like well like maybe yeah sure i mean like but like when it comes to that for me my brain was just like you kind of have to try to separate that

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

you know, in a way, you know, or just acknowledge that it's not the same as your friend and her partner and, you know, because they literally can't compare. you know? So for them to say, well, well, Mark would blah, blah, blah. It's like, how do you know what Mark would do?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

you know, in a way, you know, or just acknowledge that it's not the same as your friend and her partner and, you know, because they literally can't compare. you know? So for them to say, well, well, Mark would blah, blah, blah. It's like, how do you know what Mark would do?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

you know, in a way, you know, or just acknowledge that it's not the same as your friend and her partner and, you know, because they literally can't compare. you know? So for them to say, well, well, Mark would blah, blah, blah. It's like, how do you know what Mark would do?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

But do you understand how someone hearing those words would take that?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

But do you understand how someone hearing those words would take that?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

But do you understand how someone hearing those words would take that?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's just like, there's no point in like softening that message because they don't hear any of the softening. They just hear, I feel weird about it. I'm very unsettled by this. You know, they're not hearing, I'm not telling you no, and you should go for it if you want it. You know, that's not what they're hearing. They're just hearing all the ways you're pissed off about it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's just like, there's no point in like softening that message because they don't hear any of the softening. They just hear, I feel weird about it. I'm very unsettled by this. You know, they're not hearing, I'm not telling you no, and you should go for it if you want it. You know, that's not what they're hearing. They're just hearing all the ways you're pissed off about it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

It's just like, there's no point in like softening that message because they don't hear any of the softening. They just hear, I feel weird about it. I'm very unsettled by this. You know, they're not hearing, I'm not telling you no, and you should go for it if you want it. You know, that's not what they're hearing. They're just hearing all the ways you're pissed off about it.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah. I mean, listen, like, but I think you, the way you sit, you know, it's just like, just, just own your feelings at least as I, as this is what I'm saying.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Yeah. I mean, listen, like, but I think you, the way you sit, you know, it's just like, just, just own your feelings at least as I, as this is what I'm saying.