Derek

So that's kind of where I didn't know how bad the situation was. I didn't know their work history or anything. Just recently found out that none of them have worked. Talked to her about that. And we've been dating a year. So we started talking about marriage and finances. And this is when it all started to come up of, okay, what's the plan? And what's her plan?

So that's kind of where I didn't know how bad the situation was. I didn't know their work history or anything. Just recently found out that none of them have worked. Talked to her about that. And we've been dating a year. So we started talking about marriage and finances. And this is when it all started to come up of, okay, what's the plan? And what's her plan?

And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her Either me or a future husband is taking care of all expenses while she finishes school.

And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her Either me or a future husband is taking care of all expenses while she finishes school.

And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her Either me or a future husband is taking care of all expenses while she finishes school.

Yeah, I've been honest with her, and that's why I reached out to you guys because we were talking about this. And I work full-time. I have a very stable job and been doing that for a while, debt-free, kind of a whole nine yards there. But I asked her to get a part-time job during the summer next semester to kind of get some financial freedom away from her parents.

Yeah, I've been honest with her, and that's why I reached out to you guys because we were talking about this. And I work full-time. I have a very stable job and been doing that for a while, debt-free, kind of a whole nine yards there. But I asked her to get a part-time job during the summer next semester to kind of get some financial freedom away from her parents.

Yeah, I've been honest with her, and that's why I reached out to you guys because we were talking about this. And I work full-time. I have a very stable job and been doing that for a while, debt-free, kind of a whole nine yards there. But I asked her to get a part-time job during the summer next semester to kind of get some financial freedom away from her parents.

Yeah, that was my tester to see if she was willing to put in some effort because I want to make things work. But if I'm expected to take 100% of the financial... burden for the next 50 years. I don't know if I can handle that.

Yeah, that was my tester to see if she was willing to put in some effort because I want to make things work. But if I'm expected to take 100% of the financial... burden for the next 50 years. I don't know if I can handle that.

Yeah, that was my tester to see if she was willing to put in some effort because I want to make things work. But if I'm expected to take 100% of the financial... burden for the next 50 years. I don't know if I can handle that.

She's had to retake a lot of classes where she's... Failed? Failed. Says she wants to get into, like, a master's, PhD program. Yikes, dude.

She's had to retake a lot of classes where she's... Failed? Failed. Says she wants to get into, like, a master's, PhD program. Yikes, dude.

She's had to retake a lot of classes where she's... Failed? Failed. Says she wants to get into, like, a master's, PhD program. Yikes, dude.

Uh, so that's my next step was to, to allow her some time to get a job. And if she wasn't willing to work, you know, 15, 20 hours a week, it was kind of the end.

Uh, so that's my next step was to, to allow her some time to get a job. And if she wasn't willing to work, you know, 15, 20 hours a week, it was kind of the end.

Uh, so that's my next step was to, to allow her some time to get a job. And if she wasn't willing to work, you know, 15, 20 hours a week, it was kind of the end.

I didn't wake her up.

I didn't wake her up.

I didn't wake her up.