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And her parents have a deal with all of their kids that as long as they're in school, they'll pay for all of their college and all of their living expenses until they either graduate or get married. That's a wild situation.
So she did take an 18-month service mission for her church, but other than that, she's been full-time school through summer. And just getting a bachelor's still.
So she did take an 18-month service mission for her church, but other than that, she's been full-time school through summer. And just getting a bachelor's still.
So she did take an 18-month service mission for her church, but other than that, she's been full-time school through summer. And just getting a bachelor's still.
Nope, this is just her bachelor's degree.
Nope, this is just her bachelor's degree.
Nope, this is just her bachelor's degree.
That's kind of my fear. So she has two older brothers in the same situation who are 31 and 29. And they're still in school? Yeah, also still in school, never worked.
That's kind of my fear. So she has two older brothers in the same situation who are 31 and 29. And they're still in school? Yeah, also still in school, never worked.
That's kind of my fear. So she has two older brothers in the same situation who are 31 and 29. And they're still in school? Yeah, also still in school, never worked.
No, not at this particular moment.
No, not at this particular moment.
No, not at this particular moment.
So that's kind of where I didn't know how bad the situation was. I didn't know their work history or anything. Just recently found out that none of them have worked. Talked to her about that. And we've been dating a year. So we started talking about marriage and finances. And this is when it all started to come up of, okay, what's the plan? And what's her plan?
So that's kind of where I didn't know how bad the situation was. I didn't know their work history or anything. Just recently found out that none of them have worked. Talked to her about that. And we've been dating a year. So we started talking about marriage and finances. And this is when it all started to come up of, okay, what's the plan? And what's her plan?
So that's kind of where I didn't know how bad the situation was. I didn't know their work history or anything. Just recently found out that none of them have worked. Talked to her about that. And we've been dating a year. So we started talking about marriage and finances. And this is when it all started to come up of, okay, what's the plan? And what's her plan?
And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her Either me or a future husband is taking care of all expenses while she finishes school.
And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her Either me or a future husband is taking care of all expenses while she finishes school.
And for now, it sounds like as soon as she gets married, her Either me or a future husband is taking care of all expenses while she finishes school.
Yeah, I've been honest with her, and that's why I reached out to you guys because we were talking about this. And I work full-time. I have a very stable job and been doing that for a while, debt-free, kind of a whole nine yards there. But I asked her to get a part-time job during the summer next semester to kind of get some financial freedom away from her parents.