Derek

I don't know. I guess maybe we're arguing over semantics and it's maybe just how we define it. But like, I think passive aggressive can still be really aggressive, right?

I don't know. I guess maybe we're arguing over semantics and it's maybe just how we define it. But like, I think passive aggressive can still be really aggressive, right?

I don't know. I guess maybe we're arguing over semantics and it's maybe just how we define it. But like, I think passive aggressive can still be really aggressive, right?

It just in a more passive fucking irritating way. Yes. Coupled with like just the extreme passive aggressive nature, but you know what I'm saying? So like just because they're not, you know, flying off the handle or screaming or elevating their voice or, or slamming doors doesn't mean they're not like overreacting.

It just in a more passive fucking irritating way. Yes. Coupled with like just the extreme passive aggressive nature, but you know what I'm saying? So like just because they're not, you know, flying off the handle or screaming or elevating their voice or, or slamming doors doesn't mean they're not like overreacting.

It just in a more passive fucking irritating way. Yes. Coupled with like just the extreme passive aggressive nature, but you know what I'm saying? So like just because they're not, you know, flying off the handle or screaming or elevating their voice or, or slamming doors doesn't mean they're not like overreacting.

So we would agree that what you're saying is you're more shocked by what feels like an overreaction to whatever it is that's upsetting him.

So we would agree that what you're saying is you're more shocked by what feels like an overreaction to whatever it is that's upsetting him.

So we would agree that what you're saying is you're more shocked by what feels like an overreaction to whatever it is that's upsetting him.

Because I can see like the example you gave about like getting a plus one. You know, we could, I think honestly, like we could probably have, I could have a 45 minute discussion on my podcast about like, What do you do in that situation? What do you do in that situation? Listen, it's a barometer. Stuff like that early in a relationship, it is a relationship barometer.

Because I can see like the example you gave about like getting a plus one. You know, we could, I think honestly, like we could probably have, I could have a 45 minute discussion on my podcast about like, What do you do in that situation? What do you do in that situation? Listen, it's a barometer. Stuff like that early in a relationship, it is a relationship barometer.

Because I can see like the example you gave about like getting a plus one. You know, we could, I think honestly, like we could probably have, I could have a 45 minute discussion on my podcast about like, What do you do in that situation? What do you do in that situation? Listen, it's a barometer. Stuff like that early in a relationship, it is a relationship barometer.

How does this person feel about me? What kind of priority am I to this person? There's several different layers or ways to interpret things, but either way, when you break it down, it is a barometer. And so he is absolutely justified to be like, oh, well, I mean... Okay, yeah. Like he could be upset about it, right?

How does this person feel about me? What kind of priority am I to this person? There's several different layers or ways to interpret things, but either way, when you break it down, it is a barometer. And so he is absolutely justified to be like, oh, well, I mean... Okay, yeah. Like he could be upset about it, right?

How does this person feel about me? What kind of priority am I to this person? There's several different layers or ways to interpret things, but either way, when you break it down, it is a barometer. And so he is absolutely justified to be like, oh, well, I mean... Okay, yeah. Like he could be upset about it, right?

His approach seems to be just fucking annoying and borderline aggressive, even if it's passive. Correct me if I'm wrong by any of this. But yeah, no, it makes sense, right? Because you're just like, you know, because let's be real. You could meet someone for two weeks, two weeks. I mean, I have...

His approach seems to be just fucking annoying and borderline aggressive, even if it's passive. Correct me if I'm wrong by any of this. But yeah, no, it makes sense, right? Because you're just like, you know, because let's be real. You could meet someone for two weeks, two weeks. I mean, I have...

His approach seems to be just fucking annoying and borderline aggressive, even if it's passive. Correct me if I'm wrong by any of this. But yeah, no, it makes sense, right? Because you're just like, you know, because let's be real. You could meet someone for two weeks, two weeks. I mean, I have...

Whether it was right or wrong or whether I was delusional or not, I in my life have met women that I got really excited about. And two weeks into knowing them, we were saying some crazy shit to each other. And if I got invited to a wedding... I would have been that guy who would have been like, can I bring up, come on. Because I wanted to take this person.

Whether it was right or wrong or whether I was delusional or not, I in my life have met women that I got really excited about. And two weeks into knowing them, we were saying some crazy shit to each other. And if I got invited to a wedding... I would have been that guy who would have been like, can I bring up, come on. Because I wanted to take this person.