Derek

Yeah. So anyways, it's up to you, right? But you just have to be self-aware. About how available you are emotionally, you know, and how needy are the men that you date? And are you dating needy men because they fill some other void in your life that you like? But when it comes to your like girl traps, it's really fucking obnoxious.

Yeah, but this is definitely more about you than making sure he's okay.

Yeah, but this is definitely more about you than making sure he's okay.

Yeah, but this is definitely more about you than making sure he's okay.

Where did a narcissist come into this conversation? Why do you think he's a narcissist?

Where did a narcissist come into this conversation? Why do you think he's a narcissist?

Where did a narcissist come into this conversation? Why do you think he's a narcissist?

My general opinion about the conversation around narcissists, it's become ridiculous and deluded.

My general opinion about the conversation around narcissists, it's become ridiculous and deluded.

My general opinion about the conversation around narcissists, it's become ridiculous and deluded.

Yeah. I mean, like, yeah, listen, our society has never been more self-centered and selfish. Like it's most narcissists are the one accusing other people of being narcissists. The selfish person in the room thinks everyone else is selfish because like the selfish person thinks everyone should be focused on them.

Yeah. I mean, like, yeah, listen, our society has never been more self-centered and selfish. Like it's most narcissists are the one accusing other people of being narcissists. The selfish person in the room thinks everyone else is selfish because like the selfish person thinks everyone should be focused on them.

Yeah. I mean, like, yeah, listen, our society has never been more self-centered and selfish. Like it's most narcissists are the one accusing other people of being narcissists. The selfish person in the room thinks everyone else is selfish because like the selfish person thinks everyone should be focused on them.

And when people are focused on other things, that's very offensive to the selfish or not. But like, that's all of us. Like, Yeah, it is, it is. A true narcissist. I mean, we have narcissism all over us. We're surrounded by narcissism. We're incentivized. It's now become a currency. But in terms of relationships, yeah, a lot of people have become more self-centered. Everyone out there

And when people are focused on other things, that's very offensive to the selfish or not. But like, that's all of us. Like, Yeah, it is, it is. A true narcissist. I mean, we have narcissism all over us. We're surrounded by narcissism. We're incentivized. It's now become a currency. But in terms of relationships, yeah, a lot of people have become more self-centered. Everyone out there

And when people are focused on other things, that's very offensive to the selfish or not. But like, that's all of us. Like, Yeah, it is, it is. A true narcissist. I mean, we have narcissism all over us. We're surrounded by narcissism. We're incentivized. It's now become a currency. But in terms of relationships, yeah, a lot of people have become more self-centered. Everyone out there

a lot of people giving relationship advice. It's just all about like, you got to love yourself before you love everyone else. And, you know, it's just like, you know, if you're not happy, then what's, you know, it's like, yeah. So I mean, but like, I really like our update calls. Right. So it is nice to, you know, hear that like there is some positive impact at times, but

a lot of people giving relationship advice. It's just all about like, you got to love yourself before you love everyone else. And, you know, it's just like, you know, if you're not happy, then what's, you know, it's like, yeah. So I mean, but like, I really like our update calls. Right. So it is nice to, you know, hear that like there is some positive impact at times, but

a lot of people giving relationship advice. It's just all about like, you got to love yourself before you love everyone else. And, you know, it's just like, you know, if you're not happy, then what's, you know, it's like, yeah. So I mean, but like, I really like our update calls. Right. So it is nice to, you know, hear that like there is some positive impact at times, but

I could give advice that I think is great, that the listeners think are great, and maybe it is actually pretty solid advice. But the way people often even hear my advice, and then they might even hear it the right way, forget about it, episode doesn't come out for a few weeks.