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Derek

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
7547 total appearances

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The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Did you date a narcissist too? Like, were you a victim of your ex? Like we, you know, there's a lot of bad behaviors and a lot of it is through us, you know? And like, we are, we are not becoming a society that's more emotion. Like, yeah, we're more, we're taking care of our mental health better. You know, we are more aware about that, but a lot of people like, We've just become big babies.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Did you date a narcissist too? Like, were you a victim of your ex? Like we, you know, there's a lot of bad behaviors and a lot of it is through us, you know? And like, we are, we are not becoming a society that's more emotion. Like, yeah, we're more, we're taking care of our mental health better. You know, we are more aware about that, but a lot of people like, We've just become big babies.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

Did you date a narcissist too? Like, were you a victim of your ex? Like we, you know, there's a lot of bad behaviors and a lot of it is through us, you know? And like, we are, we are not becoming a society that's more emotion. Like, yeah, we're more, we're taking care of our mental health better. You know, we are more aware about that, but a lot of people like, We've just become big babies.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

We've become emotionally non-resilient and entitled people who feel like our feelings are just about us. And if we feel something, then everyone else needs to stop and recognize those feelings. And everyone's doing that. So then you walk into a room and everyone's doing that to you. Everyone's a fucking narcissist because you're like, I'm feeling sad and no one cares. What is going on?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

We've become emotionally non-resilient and entitled people who feel like our feelings are just about us. And if we feel something, then everyone else needs to stop and recognize those feelings. And everyone's doing that. So then you walk into a room and everyone's doing that to you. Everyone's a fucking narcissist because you're like, I'm feeling sad and no one cares. What is going on?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

We've become emotionally non-resilient and entitled people who feel like our feelings are just about us. And if we feel something, then everyone else needs to stop and recognize those feelings. And everyone's doing that. So then you walk into a room and everyone's doing that to you. Everyone's a fucking narcissist because you're like, I'm feeling sad and no one cares. What is going on?

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And everyone else is like, well, I'm feeling angry and no one cares. And another person's like, well, I'm anxious and no one cares. I must be only hanging out with narcissists because only narcissists could see my anxiousness and not give a fuck.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And everyone else is like, well, I'm feeling angry and no one cares. And another person's like, well, I'm anxious and no one cares. I must be only hanging out with narcissists because only narcissists could see my anxiousness and not give a fuck.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And everyone else is like, well, I'm feeling angry and no one cares. And another person's like, well, I'm anxious and no one cares. I must be only hanging out with narcissists because only narcissists could see my anxiousness and not give a fuck.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

So to me, like this call is less about like what your ex was. What he is, is not in a relationship with you anymore. I think reflecting on just like, what are the subtleties when you're in relationships, both like your picker, the men you're dating and just like, as you get old, you're 28.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

So to me, like this call is less about like what your ex was. What he is, is not in a relationship with you anymore. I think reflecting on just like, what are the subtleties when you're in relationships, both like your picker, the men you're dating and just like, as you get old, you're 28.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

So to me, like this call is less about like what your ex was. What he is, is not in a relationship with you anymore. I think reflecting on just like, what are the subtleties when you're in relationships, both like your picker, the men you're dating and just like, as you get old, you're 28.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I didn't know where it was going to go when you were going to describe your social life, but I was ready to say you need to grow up. I don't know if I'm in a position to say that because your social life sounds more than reasonable and a lot of fun. I think the fact that you have this friend group is beautiful and you should hold on to that as much as you can.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I didn't know where it was going to go when you were going to describe your social life, but I was ready to say you need to grow up. I don't know if I'm in a position to say that because your social life sounds more than reasonable and a lot of fun. I think the fact that you have this friend group is beautiful and you should hold on to that as much as you can.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

I didn't know where it was going to go when you were going to describe your social life, but I was ready to say you need to grow up. I don't know if I'm in a position to say that because your social life sounds more than reasonable and a lot of fun. I think the fact that you have this friend group is beautiful and you should hold on to that as much as you can.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

That being said, friends from earlier life can prevent you from wanting to grow up. And if you really want a partner to have a family with, you're going to have to make sacrifices. We have the perfect kid. She's so fucking easy. We're really lucky. And she's a lot of fucking work.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

That being said, friends from earlier life can prevent you from wanting to grow up. And if you really want a partner to have a family with, you're going to have to make sacrifices. We have the perfect kid. She's so fucking easy. We're really lucky. And she's a lot of fucking work.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

That being said, friends from earlier life can prevent you from wanting to grow up. And if you really want a partner to have a family with, you're going to have to make sacrifices. We have the perfect kid. She's so fucking easy. We're really lucky. And she's a lot of fucking work.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And it's just like every day now, we've had a lot going on lately, but it's like we wake up and we blink and we're late for her bath at night. And we are so lucky because we can have help. A lot of people don't have the help that we have available to us. And I'm just saying, you need a partner and you don't get to just go on monthly girl trips or quarterly girl trips.

The Viall Files
E917 Ask Nick - My Boyfriend Stole My Job

And it's just like every day now, we've had a lot going on lately, but it's like we wake up and we blink and we're late for her bath at night. And we are so lucky because we can have help. A lot of people don't have the help that we have available to us. And I'm just saying, you need a partner and you don't get to just go on monthly girl trips or quarterly girl trips.