Desi Perkins

Yeah.

And it's crazy, because if it's a societal issue, then it's really just your problem.

Yeah, it's a man-made issue.

Yeah, it is.

It doesn't have to be.

And, yeah, no, I...

I've definitely experienced some stuff.

And I'm really glad that I have my own business where I don't have to worry about those kinds of things.

And it's like, also, it can be beautiful, and it can be magical, it can also be traumatic, and it can also be isolating, and it can also be a little sad sometimes, chaotic.

It can be all of those things.

And I feel like people pick you apart for like showing the real side of motherhood sometimes.

And it's like, no, this is the reality.

Because then there's also people that are like, why didn't anyone tell me this about motherhood?

It's like because when we talk about the negative side, people get really upset about it.

And they're like, well, stop complaining.

I'm not complaining.

This is just reality of being a mom.

Honestly, sometimes I wonder what people used to talk to me about before I had kids.

Because I'm like...

They feel seen.