Desi Perkins

You have no compassion for these people.

And what's really sad is that I think most people who don't have kids yet and men will never understand because they'll never be in that position where they can sympathize with that feeling.

Even me, before having kids, I have one of my best friends who, when she had a baby, she had a few kids, and...

After I had my kids, I realized, like, I probably should have called her more.

Like, I should have called her more and checked on her.

But I didn't realize what it was like because I didn't experience it yet.

So then I'm looking at everyone that are leaving comments or saying these things at the workplace.

Like, they've probably never experienced this.

They're never going to sympathize with this feeling.

It's just insane.

But I think like we as a society perpetuate that it's so much easier because, again, people get mad if we talk about all the real shit.

Exactly.

Yeah.

So it's like then people think, oh.

Like, yeah.

See, it's great.

If you ripped from your front to your back, I would like to see you go back to work and handle shit like a boss.

Because the reality is, women are doing it every day and we're still caring for the baby and waking up five times a night.

It's just crazy.

And then when you see the baby come out and you look at your body and it's like, yo, you still look pregnant.