Devorah Roloff

Even if your, you know, experience is a little different.

You guys share those similar emotions and frustrations and confusions even.

Yes.

And I feel like it can really make you feel like you're not so alone in a situation.

Yeah.

look at other people's stories it's more personal because I think that when you google something or when you look something up it's so general like in everyone's situation is so different yeah so it's like to be able to go to multiple different resources and kind of pick and choose like okay maybe this could work or maybe this is something that we can relate more to in our situation I think that that makes it like very helpful yes exactly yeah so you know with

Sometimes sharing something over and over again, it is like beating a dead horse.

And it's kind of like every time you bring it up, you're bringing back up all of those emotions, which keeps you stuck in the emotions.

Okay.

And you can't stop your own life.

Yeah, right.

And I think your mom is a good example of that.

She is thriving and she's living her life, but she still does what she has to do as a mom and check in on him every day.

You can only do as much as you can do.

So you guys don't even really have phone conversations.

Yeah, and you already have, like, anxious feelings.

Yes.

So it's like that's just going to be something that adds to it.

Yes.

And there's nothing – I think that's another good reason of you sharing your story, not only for, you know, your personal experience, but to show people that, you know, it's normal to feel guilty, but it's okay to let that go.