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Dewayne Noel

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
684 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

The average man, I believe, the average real man, does not need to go get therapy for the battles and the burdens he's carrying inside. What he needs is for those that he's carrying them for to recognize that they're there and to respect it and to be grateful for it. They don't need to talk it out to get rid of it.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

The average man, I believe, the average real man, does not need to go get therapy for the battles and the burdens he's carrying inside. What he needs is for those that he's carrying them for to recognize that they're there and to respect it and to be grateful for it. They don't need to talk it out to get rid of it.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

The average man, I believe, the average real man, does not need to go get therapy for the battles and the burdens he's carrying inside. What he needs is for those that he's carrying them for to recognize that they're there and to respect it and to be grateful for it. They don't need to talk it out to get rid of it.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

They need the one that they're going through this hell for to recognize it's there and to be grateful that the man is carrying this for them. They don't need therapy. They need gratitude.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

They need the one that they're going through this hell for to recognize it's there and to be grateful that the man is carrying this for them. They don't need therapy. They need gratitude.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

They need the one that they're going through this hell for to recognize it's there and to be grateful that the man is carrying this for them. They don't need therapy. They need gratitude.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

open up. They won't respond because it's looked at as becoming vulnerable. And it's like the, you know, the little Dutch boy with his finger in the dike, it's a little tiny leak. But if I allow this little tiny leak, the entire dike is going to give way. That's why we can't allow the little tiny leak. Okay.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

open up. They won't respond because it's looked at as becoming vulnerable. And it's like the, you know, the little Dutch boy with his finger in the dike, it's a little tiny leak. But if I allow this little tiny leak, the entire dike is going to give way. That's why we can't allow the little tiny leak. Okay.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

open up. They won't respond because it's looked at as becoming vulnerable. And it's like the, you know, the little Dutch boy with his finger in the dike, it's a little tiny leak. But if I allow this little tiny leak, the entire dike is going to give way. That's why we can't allow the little tiny leak. Okay.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

So if, if I, if I'm sitting here and if I'm one of these guys and my significant other is sitting there and I can communicate to her what I need to communicate without being vulnerable. I can maintain my strength and communicate to her. Okay. I can say, look, I'm, I'm working 60 hours a week and the environment that I'm working in is very, very difficult. And I come home and I only have,

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

So if, if I, if I'm sitting here and if I'm one of these guys and my significant other is sitting there and I can communicate to her what I need to communicate without being vulnerable. I can maintain my strength and communicate to her. Okay. I can say, look, I'm, I'm working 60 hours a week and the environment that I'm working in is very, very difficult. And I come home and I only have,

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

So if, if I, if I'm sitting here and if I'm one of these guys and my significant other is sitting there and I can communicate to her what I need to communicate without being vulnerable. I can maintain my strength and communicate to her. Okay. I can say, look, I'm, I'm working 60 hours a week and the environment that I'm working in is very, very difficult. And I come home and I only have,

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

eight hours here at the house. And this is the only place of peace I have in this entire world. And when I come home, you're angry all the time. You're not satisfied about anything. You're, you want that, you know, whatever the situation is, if you're not going to provide for me that little bit of peace, that this is the only place I can get, what are we doing? Now, you're not vulnerable.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

eight hours here at the house. And this is the only place of peace I have in this entire world. And when I come home, you're angry all the time. You're not satisfied about anything. You're, you want that, you know, whatever the situation is, if you're not going to provide for me that little bit of peace, that this is the only place I can get, what are we doing? Now, you're not vulnerable.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

eight hours here at the house. And this is the only place of peace I have in this entire world. And when I come home, you're angry all the time. You're not satisfied about anything. You're, you want that, you know, whatever the situation is, if you're not going to provide for me that little bit of peace, that this is the only place I can get, what are we doing? Now, you're not vulnerable.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

You're not getting walked on. You're not being a jerk. You're not coming in, throwing stuff down and saying this. You're just communicating the hard reality truth is. The hard reality truth is... Our relationship at this point has boiled down to this. Now you have a beautiful house. You have, you never worry about there being grocery money. You have a car.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

You're not getting walked on. You're not being a jerk. You're not coming in, throwing stuff down and saying this. You're just communicating the hard reality truth is. The hard reality truth is... Our relationship at this point has boiled down to this. Now you have a beautiful house. You have, you never worry about there being grocery money. You have a car.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

You're not getting walked on. You're not being a jerk. You're not coming in, throwing stuff down and saying this. You're just communicating the hard reality truth is. The hard reality truth is... Our relationship at this point has boiled down to this. Now you have a beautiful house. You have, you never worry about there being grocery money. You have a car.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

I put the fuel in your car because you let it go to empty all the time. I provide this and this and this. And what I'd like for you is some peace and some understanding. You know, if that's where your situation is, but to communicate it in such a way, not to come in and whine. Not to grovel and not to tyrant, you know, not to yell, not to pick a fight.

Modern Wisdom
#869 - Dry Creek Dewayne - Life Lessons From A Modern Cowboy

I put the fuel in your car because you let it go to empty all the time. I provide this and this and this. And what I'd like for you is some peace and some understanding. You know, if that's where your situation is, but to communicate it in such a way, not to come in and whine. Not to grovel and not to tyrant, you know, not to yell, not to pick a fight.