Dhru Purohit

And even if there's toxic patriarchy, toxic matriarchy, which is the thing as well, too.

Yeah, great.

Even if those things are out there, there is team human, which is the vast majority of human beings want to support each other, want to look after each other, want to help their family.

And what I was getting to earlier is that

you're such a big connector.

And also, a big part of, I imagine, your identity, and not that this has gone away, has been like, hey, I want to help people.

Because also there was people that helped me in my journey as a tennis player, as you getting into your career.

And so you are definitely a pay it forward type of person.

And like all things, there can be times where our identity is running the show at the detriment of ourself.

Very true.

In different schools of thought, they sometimes call it our golden handcuffs.

They're the things that worked for us for such a long period of time, but left unchecked, can start working against us.

Well said.

And so even though there might be a sense of upset or the feelings of how other people are provoking it,

I feel like life is the most beautiful when we realize, like, you might find yourself in a place where a relationship no longer works for you and you're transitioning on.

Okay, great.

And a powerful question is also too, it's like, how was I complicit in also creating that?

With compassion.

Oh, exactly.

Not blame.