Dhru Purohit

It can be uncomfortable for all people, men, women, young and old.

Pause the inertia.

Have the courage enough to pause the inertia and go inward to actually just pay attention to what's there.

Yeah, that's great.

It's beautiful.

It is a retraining and it takes time.

Anytime you're going to go through a retraining.

And it takes a little bit of space as well too.

Yeah.

To go through that.

Sometimes that could be finding an 83-year-old therapist.

Yeah.

Sometimes that can be following a book or methodology or being part of a, since we're talking about women, being part of a circle, a women's circle that gets together.

Yeah, and prioritizing that.

Anything you want to say for the partners, husbands who also might be listening in that are watching the women that they love, maybe it's their wife, maybe it's their sisters, maybe it's their mom, and they're seeing them go through this period of time, this transition, and they want to best support them and be an ally on their journey.

What would be the things you'd want to tell them?

I actually don't know what that is.

Yeah, and I'm sure with your husband, not biologically having gone through the same changes that are there, but life changes that are there too, which you opening up and sharing what you need, anytime you do that with anybody, your kids or anything else like that, where there's that true, beautiful communication, you're now creating a table where that other person also gets to open up as well.

That's right.

And you create this level of communication that is so easily lost.