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Doctor Mike

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The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

You know, we're finding that fewer and fewer people are getting married and having children.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

And those are wonderful things.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

I mean, there's all kinds of cultural nonsense out there that if you get happier, you'll be subjugated and tied down and all that.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

Or if you have kids, you'll be more miserable.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

That's all nonsense.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

That's all nonsense.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

They're getting that from a lot of the popular culture.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

They're getting that from sort of wishful thinking.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

The whole idea that freedom is without restriction, that a libertine lifestyle is always and everywhere better.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

And a lot of that comes from kind of the propaganda from the sexual revolution, that getting tied down in traditional relationships is somehow old school and restrictive and will make your life a lot worse.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

No, it won't.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

No, I got the data.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

Look, if you're in an unhappy marriage, but you know, fair enough, but you know, no one's advocating for abusive IPV relationships.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

Of course not.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

But a good marriage is literally the number one source of happiness in people's lives.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

And when we have cultural barriers, but even political and policy barriers that make it harder, you know, when you make it, so you lose your welfare benefits, if you have a partner in the home,

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

That's insanity.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

That's craziness.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

That's a bad policy is what it comes down to.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
The Shocking Lessons He Teaches His Harvard Students | Arthur Brooks

Friendship, you know, when we're fragmenting friendship with the propagation of the way that we're spreading the use of social media to people under 13 years old, that's a big problem for happiness because it's a barrier to friendship, in-person friendship.