Donna Nayler

I mean, I would find letters as well, a lot of letters that were written to themselves, to other people, you know, saying sorry for this, certainly the way that they were.

But seeing the family photos that were there.

I mean, I went to one once where they'd actually turned all of the photos around so I never saw who they were.

which was quite unusual, but they did that for whatever reason.

But it just shows, you know, there's a fine line between love and hate and things can turn so quickly.

You've got a happy family that's on a fridge that's no longer.

Yeah.

So I went to one in particular that it was a suicide and the wife had committed suicide.

The children found her.

That was one of the hardest things I had to...

deal with for myself that I saw what they saw and I hope they forget it because they were only really young.

He wanted nothing, nothing of hers, nothing in the house.

He wanted the house gone.

There are some cases, depending on culture, that, you know, people can't move back into them.

But then I've been at some where the families stay in the home.

So everybody deals with grief differently.

Whatever brings people peace is okay.

Yes.

I can't use a particular washing powder because of that story.

Why?