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Dr. Adi Jaffe

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Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

So phase one was as a kid growing up, up to 14 years old, same exact apartment, went to school across the street from my home, like super chill, good upbringing, right? You know, parents had issues, fought, not very emotional household, but I didn't have any big T trauma, it was pretty wholesome. 14 years old, I moved, had the exact same experience you did, Drew. super lonely and isolated.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

I felt socially anxious. I didn't speak the language well. The thing is you found giving to other people within three, four months of me being in the United States, I found alcohol. And so I went to a sleepaway camp, got introduced to vodka. Somebody handed me a disgusting, warm jug of vodka. And I took two swags off of it, just trying to be brave, look all cool in front of all the other kids.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

I felt socially anxious. I didn't speak the language well. The thing is you found giving to other people within three, four months of me being in the United States, I found alcohol. And so I went to a sleepaway camp, got introduced to vodka. Somebody handed me a disgusting, warm jug of vodka. And I took two swags off of it, just trying to be brave, look all cool in front of all the other kids.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

I felt socially anxious. I didn't speak the language well. The thing is you found giving to other people within three, four months of me being in the United States, I found alcohol. And so I went to a sleepaway camp, got introduced to vodka. Somebody handed me a disgusting, warm jug of vodka. And I took two swags off of it, just trying to be brave, look all cool in front of all the other kids.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

I had no idea what the vodka was going to do to me. But then 20 minutes later, I felt good. I wasn't afraid of being isolated at all.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

I had no idea what the vodka was going to do to me. But then 20 minutes later, I felt good. I wasn't afraid of being isolated at all.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

I had no idea what the vodka was going to do to me. But then 20 minutes later, I felt good. I wasn't afraid of being isolated at all.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

They were all drinking. It was great. You know, I felt more secure and more comfortable than I ever remember feeling, to be honest, until that moment. Now, I didn't know to call it anxiety, right? None of that stuff existed in my head. I just knew I felt better. After that trip, I took every opportunity. Every time I could get invited to a party, I would go.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

They were all drinking. It was great. You know, I felt more secure and more comfortable than I ever remember feeling, to be honest, until that moment. Now, I didn't know to call it anxiety, right? None of that stuff existed in my head. I just knew I felt better. After that trip, I took every opportunity. Every time I could get invited to a party, I would go.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

They were all drinking. It was great. You know, I felt more secure and more comfortable than I ever remember feeling, to be honest, until that moment. Now, I didn't know to call it anxiety, right? None of that stuff existed in my head. I just knew I felt better. After that trip, I took every opportunity. Every time I could get invited to a party, I would go.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

Now I got invited to parties where people are drinking. Alcohol became a thing. Then two years later, weed became a thing because a girl gave me a joint. Again, people pleasing, wanting to fit in, said yes. By the time I got to college at 18, I was drinking and smoking weed every single day. And it just kept progressing from there.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

Now I got invited to parties where people are drinking. Alcohol became a thing. Then two years later, weed became a thing because a girl gave me a joint. Again, people pleasing, wanting to fit in, said yes. By the time I got to college at 18, I was drinking and smoking weed every single day. And it just kept progressing from there.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

Now I got invited to parties where people are drinking. Alcohol became a thing. Then two years later, weed became a thing because a girl gave me a joint. Again, people pleasing, wanting to fit in, said yes. By the time I got to college at 18, I was drinking and smoking weed every single day. And it just kept progressing from there.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

And you already alluded to it, but I started out in upstate New York. I ended up moving to Los Angeles by myself. I hated the cold in Buffalo, and so I moved myself out here. Still appreciate the weather like 20-some years later. But I was kind of disconnected from friends again, and I found harder drugs.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

And you already alluded to it, but I started out in upstate New York. I ended up moving to Los Angeles by myself. I hated the cold in Buffalo, and so I moved myself out here. Still appreciate the weather like 20-some years later. But I was kind of disconnected from friends again, and I found harder drugs.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

And you already alluded to it, but I started out in upstate New York. I ended up moving to Los Angeles by myself. I hated the cold in Buffalo, and so I moved myself out here. Still appreciate the weather like 20-some years later. But I was kind of disconnected from friends again, and I found harder drugs.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

The group I connected with here wasn't smoking weed and drinking, although they did some of that. But it was coke. I didn't really like coke as much, but ecstasy, a lot of hallucinogens, all that kind of stuff. Started using that a lot, but it was really expensive. You know, $25 a pill for ecstasy. I didn't have money. I was out of state.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

The group I connected with here wasn't smoking weed and drinking, although they did some of that. But it was coke. I didn't really like coke as much, but ecstasy, a lot of hallucinogens, all that kind of stuff. Started using that a lot, but it was really expensive. You know, $25 a pill for ecstasy. I didn't have money. I was out of state.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

The group I connected with here wasn't smoking weed and drinking, although they did some of that. But it was coke. I didn't really like coke as much, but ecstasy, a lot of hallucinogens, all that kind of stuff. Started using that a lot, but it was really expensive. You know, $25 a pill for ecstasy. I didn't have money. I was out of state.

Dhru Purohit Show
Break Free of People Pleasing, Sugar Addiction, and Limiting Beliefs that are Holding You Back From Living the Life You Desire with Dr. Adi Jaffe

My parents paid tuition and said, everything else is up to you. So I was entrepreneurial. I found that if I can just collect everybody's money ahead of time and go buy together...