Dr. Aditi Nerurkar
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So in one study, parental stress and mental health, poor parental mental health, impacts the child because children of caregivers with poor mental health had a four times greater likelihood of having poor general health themselves.
I would say once again, because we mentioned this prior, but we didn't talk about it specifically for parenting. You know that when you are going through a period of stress, your amygdala is on and that inner critic has a megaphone. And when you are parenting, that experience is amplified because of societal messaging, familial messaging, and messaging that you are internally creating.
I would say once again, because we mentioned this prior, but we didn't talk about it specifically for parenting. You know that when you are going through a period of stress, your amygdala is on and that inner critic has a megaphone. And when you are parenting, that experience is amplified because of societal messaging, familial messaging, and messaging that you are internally creating.
I would say once again, because we mentioned this prior, but we didn't talk about it specifically for parenting. You know that when you are going through a period of stress, your amygdala is on and that inner critic has a megaphone. And when you are parenting, that experience is amplified because of societal messaging, familial messaging, and messaging that you are internally creating.
And so that inner critic, that megaphone, sometimes you have a megaphone in each hand when it comes to parenting. So first, understand that you are doing so much better than you think you are as a parent. And like we talked about, self-compassion, being gentle on yourself. If you mess up, you know, we know that in the parenting research, repair is really important.
And so that inner critic, that megaphone, sometimes you have a megaphone in each hand when it comes to parenting. So first, understand that you are doing so much better than you think you are as a parent. And like we talked about, self-compassion, being gentle on yourself. If you mess up, you know, we know that in the parenting research, repair is really important.
And so that inner critic, that megaphone, sometimes you have a megaphone in each hand when it comes to parenting. So first, understand that you are doing so much better than you think you are as a parent. And like we talked about, self-compassion, being gentle on yourself. If you mess up, you know, we know that in the parenting research, repair is really important.
And so, of course, no one is going to be a perfect parent 24-7. That's humanly impossible. But understanding that you have to turn inwards and give yourself the same care, attention, compassion, and parent yourself through the journey is really important.
And so, of course, no one is going to be a perfect parent 24-7. That's humanly impossible. But understanding that you have to turn inwards and give yourself the same care, attention, compassion, and parent yourself through the journey is really important.
And so, of course, no one is going to be a perfect parent 24-7. That's humanly impossible. But understanding that you have to turn inwards and give yourself the same care, attention, compassion, and parent yourself through the journey is really important.
It is such an honor and privilege always to join you, Mel. Thank you for having me. It has been, again, the joy of a lifetime.
It is such an honor and privilege always to join you, Mel. Thank you for having me. It has been, again, the joy of a lifetime.
It is such an honor and privilege always to join you, Mel. Thank you for having me. It has been, again, the joy of a lifetime.
Because you are the ultimate in parasocial relationships.
Because you are the ultimate in parasocial relationships.
Because you are the ultimate in parasocial relationships.
It means when you feel a sense of connection with someone, but you have no idea, you've never met them. And you are the ultimate for me in parasocial relationships. And I don't know, 15 other, 15 million people.
It means when you feel a sense of connection with someone, but you have no idea, you've never met them. And you are the ultimate for me in parasocial relationships. And I don't know, 15 other, 15 million people.
It means when you feel a sense of connection with someone, but you have no idea, you've never met them. And you are the ultimate for me in parasocial relationships. And I don't know, 15 other, 15 million people.
Resilience and stress go hand in hand. When you think about what is resilience, the scientific definition is that it's your innate biological ability. So we all have it. And it's that ability that you have to adapt, recover and grow when life throws you a curve ball or you have a challenge. Now, resilience doesn't function in a vacuum.