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Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3217 total appearances

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

The other half are intrinsically motivated.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

It's amazing to see.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

Right?

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

Two kinds of students at Harvard go and volunteer in a jail.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

One does it because they care about the people in the jail.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

One does it because they want it to look good on the resume.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

Those two are not the same.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

And the really scary thing about extrinsic motivation is if you have a life...

HealthyGamerGG
Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

where you are forced into extrinsic motivation, that circuitry will carry over into the other parts of your life.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

That's why it's so hard to find motivation today.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

So here's the really scary thing.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

You can't have it both ways.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

You can't be gunning for the promotion at work and then come home and be intrinsically motivated to do something else.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

It's one or the other.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

So interestingly enough, everyone's saying, how do I find motivation intrinsically?

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

You need to let it go extrinsically.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

This is where you got to stop caring about the promotion.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

And this is where people make a huge mistake.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

They say, stop caring about the promotion means, oh, that's easy.

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Obscure Symptoms you didn't know were ADHD ft. Dr.Micaela

I can mentally check out.