Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanodia

So is that, I mean, I imagine, so I was thinking about to use the word pressure to describe that, but I wonder if it was like also like normal.

Like, so I remember a lot of the pressure that I felt like felt like really normal.

It felt like this is just normal.

This is just what's supposed to happen.

I didn't realize how unusual it is, or maybe it's not that unusual, but what was your experience of that like?

What pulled you towards all these extracurriculars and dance and stuff?

Okay, cool.

That's so interesting.

Can we, can I ask you some questions about that?

Cause I noticed you use the word super phrase, super toxic or toxic several times.

Yeah.

And I'm a little bit of like a boomer.

Like I got kids, you know, I was talking to someone, I got married like 15 years ago.

And, and so like, I, I hear this word being used a lot.

But can you tell me, like, so when you were... I think you said not... Was it... Before dance, there was something else that you described as super toxic.

And then you said the first dance person was good, your BFF, and then their replacement was toxic.

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.

So can you tell me what that means and what that looked like?

Yeah, so that's weird.

Like, it sounds like people will, like,