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Dr. Alok 'Dr. K' Kanojia

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
3057 total appearances

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HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

So I don't know if this kind of makes sense, but.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

See, when you get criticized by one person, it hurts.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

When you were a gigantic streamer and you get criticized by 10,000 people, 100,000 people, your brain doesn't view that criticism probabilistically.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

It just doesn't.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

That's not how our brain works.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

Our brain doesn't do a calculation of, okay, 99% of people like me, 1% of people hate me.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

It just looks at the 1% of people that hates you or the 10,000 people who hate you or the 100,000 people who hate you.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

And that's very psychologically traumatic.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

It's not a percentage.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

That's just our brain is bad at probability.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

There's all kinds of studies about this.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

You can look at things like the Monty Hall problem and things like that.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

It's why human beings play the lottery.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

And it's why human beings gamble because we suck at probabilistic thinking.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

It's a feature.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

And so when you're a streamer, it requires, right, because some people are going to hate you no matter what.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

And how do you protect your psyche from people who hate you no matter what?

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

There's a series of defense mechanisms that we'll use.

HealthyGamerGG
Dr.K Reacts To Collargate

The narcissistic defense mechanism is one of the biggest ones.