Dr. Alok Kanojia
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That's not what happens. We always want more. So Gaius theorem is a beautiful practice that shows you that your happiness and your contentment in this moment is is dependent on, of all things, your breath. And there can be other things too. But you will find some way to find solace, which is like beautiful. And then you can use that technique anytime you're like struggling.
That's not what happens. We always want more. So Gaius theorem is a beautiful practice that shows you that your happiness and your contentment in this moment is is dependent on, of all things, your breath. And there can be other things too. But you will find some way to find solace, which is like beautiful. And then you can use that technique anytime you're like struggling.
That's not what happens. We always want more. So Gaius theorem is a beautiful practice that shows you that your happiness and your contentment in this moment is is dependent on, of all things, your breath. And there can be other things too. But you will find some way to find solace, which is like beautiful. And then you can use that technique anytime you're like struggling.
You can tap into your breath and be still. And then it does all kinds of other things, right? So it teaches you to tolerate discomfort. It teaches you how to be in the present. See, this is where a lot of people struggle because they say, oh, meditation is about being in the present. I don't know. How do I be in the present?
You can tap into your breath and be still. And then it does all kinds of other things, right? So it teaches you to tolerate discomfort. It teaches you how to be in the present. See, this is where a lot of people struggle because they say, oh, meditation is about being in the present. I don't know. How do I be in the present?
You can tap into your breath and be still. And then it does all kinds of other things, right? So it teaches you to tolerate discomfort. It teaches you how to be in the present. See, this is where a lot of people struggle because they say, oh, meditation is about being in the present. I don't know. How do I be in the present?
The way you be in the present is by engaging in a practice that forces you into the present. You don't have to try. Another great example of being in the present, stand on one leg. For how long? Until you're in the present. It's not going to take very long. You can't think about anything else. Maybe for 15 seconds you can do it, but then your mind is forced to the present.
The way you be in the present is by engaging in a practice that forces you into the present. You don't have to try. Another great example of being in the present, stand on one leg. For how long? Until you're in the present. It's not going to take very long. You can't think about anything else. Maybe for 15 seconds you can do it, but then your mind is forced to the present.
The way you be in the present is by engaging in a practice that forces you into the present. You don't have to try. Another great example of being in the present, stand on one leg. For how long? Until you're in the present. It's not going to take very long. You can't think about anything else. Maybe for 15 seconds you can do it, but then your mind is forced to the present.
That's the way that meditation should be learned. Meditation is not about trying to get your brain or mind to do anything. When you have a competent teacher, they will show you how to swim. And the swimming will be automatic as long as you stick with the practice. And then you will learn how to be in the present. You will learn how to tolerate the discomfort.
That's the way that meditation should be learned. Meditation is not about trying to get your brain or mind to do anything. When you have a competent teacher, they will show you how to swim. And the swimming will be automatic as long as you stick with the practice. And then you will learn how to be in the present. You will learn how to tolerate the discomfort.
That's the way that meditation should be learned. Meditation is not about trying to get your brain or mind to do anything. When you have a competent teacher, they will show you how to swim. And the swimming will be automatic as long as you stick with the practice. And then you will learn how to be in the present. You will learn how to tolerate the discomfort.
All that stuff will happen automatically. That's the beauty of it. So I think, you know, that's where I would say people should start. Now, where do they go after that? I mean, you can get an app or whatever, but I find that going to a real meditation teacher like is really good. Because these apps and stuff are like, they're great in a lot of ways.
All that stuff will happen automatically. That's the beauty of it. So I think, you know, that's where I would say people should start. Now, where do they go after that? I mean, you can get an app or whatever, but I find that going to a real meditation teacher like is really good. Because these apps and stuff are like, they're great in a lot of ways.
All that stuff will happen automatically. That's the beauty of it. So I think, you know, that's where I would say people should start. Now, where do they go after that? I mean, you can get an app or whatever, but I find that going to a real meditation teacher like is really good. Because these apps and stuff are like, they're great in a lot of ways.
Like they can make it easy for you to stick with a practice and stuff. They're not bad, but they really are based on, you know, they're not based on spiritual growth, which is really what this like tradition offers. And really like mastery of the self, right? I've never heard of anyone becoming enlightened from using an app. So it's a great place to start and then find a teacher.
Like they can make it easy for you to stick with a practice and stuff. They're not bad, but they really are based on, you know, they're not based on spiritual growth, which is really what this like tradition offers. And really like mastery of the self, right? I've never heard of anyone becoming enlightened from using an app. So it's a great place to start and then find a teacher.
Like they can make it easy for you to stick with a practice and stuff. They're not bad, but they really are based on, you know, they're not based on spiritual growth, which is really what this like tradition offers. And really like mastery of the self, right? I've never heard of anyone becoming enlightened from using an app. So it's a great place to start and then find a teacher.
I'd say like just absolute desperation. So like I had tried everything. Like I knew I was screwing up my life and I couldn't fix it. My parents were saying, do this to fix it, do this to fix it, do this to fix it. And I think there was a really great, you know, I asked my dad and so my dad suggested it. And it wasn't less. So a couple of things. One is he didn't force me. It was a suggestion.
I'd say like just absolute desperation. So like I had tried everything. Like I knew I was screwing up my life and I couldn't fix it. My parents were saying, do this to fix it, do this to fix it, do this to fix it. And I think there was a really great, you know, I asked my dad and so my dad suggested it. And it wasn't less. So a couple of things. One is he didn't force me. It was a suggestion.