Dr. Ciara Kelly

Try and make good choices around that.

You don't want to, sometimes we sell, we talked about self-soothing before, but sometimes we self-soothe with something that's much less than adequate.

And then we inflict that on our children.

And that is a terrible thing to do.

At some point you have to step up and be the strong adult person that you.

And I think it's fine to bring people into your children's life once they're good people and once that relationship is good and solid.

But, you know, go easy.

Don't be inflicting people Tom, Dick and Harry on your kids.

Or Mary, Kate and Ashley.

Do you know what I mean?

Whoever.

Do you know what I mean?

But you know, I'm trying to think of names.

We talked about boundaries.

Have some kind of a boundary about who you're going to inflict on your kids.

And it's all very transactional and temporary and transient.

You don't even want to hear, never mind even blend of, you don't want to hear your parents having sex.

You don't want to hear, as I said, that thing about intergenerational sex.

You don't want to know about your parents' sex.

You don't want to know about your kids' sex.