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And so it deals with them both in what I call mating market conflicts.
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Some of the topics we've been talking about, deception in Internet dating and things like that.
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Second is conflict that occurs within mating relationships of the sort that we've been talking about as well.
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Financial infidelity, emotional infidelity, sexual infidelity, coping with conflict within a relationship.
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And I actually have some suggestions for strategies for coping with conflict within a relationship.
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coping in the after, dealing with the aftermath of breakups.
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So often there's an asymmetry.
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One person wants to break up, the other doesn't.
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So I talk about coping in the aftermath.
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And then I also talk in this book, When Men Behave Badly, about some of the darker sides of human mating, like intimate partner violence, stalking, sexual harassment, sexual coercion.
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So that's what that book's about.
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And I think it
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You know, it's gotten well reviewed and people find it very useful in understanding what is otherwise a lot of baffling phenomena.
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You know, why do men and women seem at odds with each other in so many domains?
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Why do some of these recurrent forms of sexual conflict occur?
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So that's what that book's about.
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My previous book, so my first book, which I've had the good fortune to be able to revise a couple times, deals more broadly with human mating strategies.
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It's called The Evolution of Desire, Strategies of Human Mating, and gives people a broad overview of what people want in a mate, tactics of attraction, tactics of mate retention, and so forth throughout the whole mating process, serial mating, causes of divorce, and so forth.
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And then even more broadly, I have a textbook called Evolutionary Psychology, the New Science of the Mind, which is in its sixth edition right now.
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And it's the most widely used textbook in evolutionary psychology around North America and Europe.