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Dr. David Buss

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Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

Could you tell us about the dark triad?

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

Yeah, so the dark triad, so we've been talking about sex differences on average, but there are critical within sex individual differences.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

And the dark triad is one of the most important ones.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

The dark triad consists of three personality characteristics.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

So narcissism,

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

Machiavellianism and psychopathy.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

If you combine these qualities, you have some very bad dudes.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

And I say bad dudes because men tend to score higher in these things than women.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

Why is this important?

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

Well, it's important in the mating context because those who are high on dark triad traits tend to be sexual deceivers, for one.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

So they're very often very charming, very good at seducing women and then abandoning them.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

They're very good at the art of seduction.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

They also tend to be serial sexual harassers and sexual coercers.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

And so if you combine dark triad traits with the dispositional pursuit of a short-term mating strategy, that's an especially deadly combination.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

That's when you get sexual harassment, sexual coercion.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

It's a subset of men who commit the vast majority of these acts of sexual violence.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

Yes.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

So, well, stalking has multiple motivations, but one of the most frequent motivations is a mating motivation where either there's a breakup and the woman dumps the guy and the guy doesn't.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

want to get dumped.

Huberman Lab
Essentials: How Humans Select & Keep Romantic Partners in the Short & Long Term | Dr. David Buss

He wants to maintain a relationship with her.