Dr. Eliza Philby

What's the right avenue?

Because what I did doesn't necessarily work anymore.

Such high stakes, such high pressure.

Do as I do.

Yeah.

It's, it's, it's, I think, and like coming back to where we started this conversation, when I was with my father in the last couple of weeks of his life,

I wanted to soak up as so much of that, who he was, what he believed in, his values.

He was such a unique character.

I just wanted to sort of envelop it as much as I possibly could as he lay there basically dying.

and desperate to kind of carry it on.

And actually, that's why I went into therapy, because I knew I'd end up fucking up my kids trying to do that.

Because the worst thing you can do as a parent is try to sort of carry the family legacy down, because it's full of expectation and quite often walked values.

And actually...

Being free from my inheritance has been what I've spent the last four years doing.

And writing that book was about essentially working out the journey my parents had had, the journey I have had, and putting that to bed so that my kid doesn't have that inheritance.

He can have much more freedom.

I feel a bit emotional.

You're amazing.

Thank you.

Thank you.