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Dr. Eric Bender

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
1592 total appearances

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The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And even Matt Damon, you could see him laughing genuinely there in the movie.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And another couple of things that he did, he improvised,

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

psychiatry and therapy is kind of like improvisation too.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And I think people respond to that movie because it felt so genuine.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

Robin Williams was so genuine in that movie.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And that is what a good therapy can look like.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

You have a genuine provider, genuinely concerned about this person.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

I found that I always laugh at the scene where Will Hunting is meeting all these psychiatrists and therapists and kind of poking at them all and getting them to say, yeah, I'm not going to work with you.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

He makes a comment about the artwork Sean has in the office that his wife has done.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And he realizes, oh, here's a soft spot.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And so Robin Williams' character grabs him almost by the neck, puts his hands on him.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

That wouldn't happen in therapy.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

In fact, there are probably legal consequences.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

There were probably all kinds of things.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

But what I like is in the next session when they do come, Robin Williams, he apologizes.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And often I'll talk to patients, my therapist will talk to me about this in life.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

When I see people and they have big issues with their kids or other people, there's gonna be rupture in your life, it's about the repair.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

And Robin Williams did a really good job of this is the repair.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

I'm sorry, that shouldn't have happened.

The Checkup with Doctor Mike
What Hollywood Gets Wrong About Mental Illness | Dr. Eric Bender

So I really like those moments.