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Dr. Gabor Maté

👤 Speaker
1456 total appearances

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On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

It's called The Eternal Song, and it's about indigenous wisdom around the world.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

And they came to Haida Gwaii, they came to Northern Bishkondia, Africa, South America, Australia, and New Zealand.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

They spoke everywhere to indigenous people.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

And the eternal song, the universal message everywhere is about the importance of learning from the heart and unity with nature, unity with the whole world.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

And when I speak in indigenous communities here in Canada, what I stress is that your own traditions, that they try to, they try to,

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

kill in you.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

And one Canadian politician said about the residential schools that the intention is to drive the Indian out of the Indian.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

So when you ask me how not to pass it on to your kids, I say first of all, as I said before, working on your own trauma, but also as much as possible, connect with that deep wisdom in your own traditions that would be so beneficial, not just for your people, but for the whole society.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

And I think it's one of the tragedies of modern civilization.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

I just did a speaking tour in Australia.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

In Australia, there have been indigenous people for 60,000 years, a continuous culture for 60,000 years.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

Canada is not 200 years old yet.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

Do you think in 60,000 years they might have learned a few things?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

Do you think in 60,000 years, they over there or your people here might have learned a few things that would be worthwhile for the rest of us to learn?

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

So what I'm saying respectfully in response to your question is,

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

Deal with your traumas, work them through, but also go back to your own wisdom because there's so much there that is healing.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

The unity, the chanting, the drumming, the dancing, the sun dancing, the cedar brushing,

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

what do you call it, the smoke that you, certain plant, you know, the sweat lodges, there's so much there.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

So combine modern trauma work with your own traditions, and I think you'll have the perfect brew.

On Purpose with Jay Shetty
Dr. Gabor Maté: Constantly Worrying What People Think of You? (THIS Simple Shift Will Help You Trust Yourself and Stop Seeking Approval)

That's my best advice to you.