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Dr. Jamil Zaki

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

It was just inspiring the way that he was able to stay hopeful, even as his life was cut short. So yeah, I mean, meanwhile, here I am, you know, studying human goodness and feeling cynical all the time. And so after Emil died, I decided to see if I could spread his message just a little bit further.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

It was just inspiring the way that he was able to stay hopeful, even as his life was cut short. So yeah, I mean, meanwhile, here I am, you know, studying human goodness and feeling cynical all the time. And so after Emil died, I decided to see if I could spread his message just a little bit further.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

It was just inspiring the way that he was able to stay hopeful, even as his life was cut short. So yeah, I mean, meanwhile, here I am, you know, studying human goodness and feeling cynical all the time. And so after Emil died, I decided to see if I could spread his message just a little bit further.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

He told me in our last conversation that he understood his worldview was unconventional and that he was more positive in some ways and in some ways startlingly positive despite what he had gone through. And he said, I wish that if this philosophy was like a tube of toothpaste, I could squeeze it out and leave some behind after I'm gone.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

He told me in our last conversation that he understood his worldview was unconventional and that he was more positive in some ways and in some ways startlingly positive despite what he had gone through. And he said, I wish that if this philosophy was like a tube of toothpaste, I could squeeze it out and leave some behind after I'm gone.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

He told me in our last conversation that he understood his worldview was unconventional and that he was more positive in some ways and in some ways startlingly positive despite what he had gone through. And he said, I wish that if this philosophy was like a tube of toothpaste, I could squeeze it out and leave some behind after I'm gone.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

So I guess I've been trying since then to squeeze out some of that Emil toothpaste for the rest of the world.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

So I guess I've been trying since then to squeeze out some of that Emil toothpaste for the rest of the world.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

So I guess I've been trying since then to squeeze out some of that Emil toothpaste for the rest of the world.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Yeah, absolutely. So cynicism is the theory that people in general are selfish, greedy, and dishonest. It is hugely on the rise. In 1972, about half of Americans believed most people can be trusted. And by 2018, that had fallen to a third of Americans. So it's a drop. as big as the stock market took during the financial collapse of 2008.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Yeah, absolutely. So cynicism is the theory that people in general are selfish, greedy, and dishonest. It is hugely on the rise. In 1972, about half of Americans believed most people can be trusted. And by 2018, that had fallen to a third of Americans. So it's a drop. as big as the stock market took during the financial collapse of 2008.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

Yeah, absolutely. So cynicism is the theory that people in general are selfish, greedy, and dishonest. It is hugely on the rise. In 1972, about half of Americans believed most people can be trusted. And by 2018, that had fallen to a third of Americans. So it's a drop. as big as the stock market took during the financial collapse of 2008.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

So we're living through really a five decade long trust deficit and we have lost faith in each other, in our institutions. And to your point, Amanda, I think that a lot of this is because in our culture, we glamorize gloom. We view it as, I'd say three different things. We view it as smart, We view it as safe and we view it as moral.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

So we're living through really a five decade long trust deficit and we have lost faith in each other, in our institutions. And to your point, Amanda, I think that a lot of this is because in our culture, we glamorize gloom. We view it as, I'd say three different things. We view it as smart, We view it as safe and we view it as moral.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

So we're living through really a five decade long trust deficit and we have lost faith in each other, in our institutions. And to your point, Amanda, I think that a lot of this is because in our culture, we glamorize gloom. We view it as, I'd say three different things. We view it as smart, We view it as safe and we view it as moral.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

And we can break down all of those if you like, but we can just start with the first, right? We have this view that, hey, if you are not cynical, You must be naive. You just haven't had a chance to be disappointed enough yet. You just don't know what the world is really like.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

And we can break down all of those if you like, but we can just start with the first, right? We have this view that, hey, if you are not cynical, You must be naive. You just haven't had a chance to be disappointed enough yet. You just don't know what the world is really like.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

And we can break down all of those if you like, but we can just start with the first, right? We have this view that, hey, if you are not cynical, You must be naive. You just haven't had a chance to be disappointed enough yet. You just don't know what the world is really like.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

In lots of studies, people will present or be presented with a story of one person who's really cynical and doesn't trust anybody and another person who's really open and trusting. And they're asked, you know, which one of these two people do you think would do better on a variety of different tasks? And it turns out that 70% of people believe that cynics are smarter than non-cynics.

We Can Do Hard Things
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest

In lots of studies, people will present or be presented with a story of one person who's really cynical and doesn't trust anybody and another person who's really open and trusting. And they're asked, you know, which one of these two people do you think would do better on a variety of different tasks? And it turns out that 70% of people believe that cynics are smarter than non-cynics.