Dr. John Deloney

And then, so the way you said this, I want to challenge you on it. Well, now we've got another hurdle. This is not just another hurdle.

And then, so the way you said this, I want to challenge you on it. Well, now we've got another hurdle. This is not just another hurdle.

And then, so the way you said this, I want to challenge you on it. Well, now we've got another hurdle. This is not just another hurdle.

Right. And so you have been working with somebody for a long time. Everything in this conversation has changed now. And the conversation changes to, now we have an hourglass. We have a clock that's ticking. And the doctors clicked it on for us. And so we're not talking about how you feel, if you really like this collection of bottle caps you've been keeping. That ship is over.

Right. And so you have been working with somebody for a long time. Everything in this conversation has changed now. And the conversation changes to, now we have an hourglass. We have a clock that's ticking. And the doctors clicked it on for us. And so we're not talking about how you feel, if you really like this collection of bottle caps you've been keeping. That ship is over.

Right. And so you have been working with somebody for a long time. Everything in this conversation has changed now. And the conversation changes to, now we have an hourglass. We have a clock that's ticking. And the doctors clicked it on for us. And so we're not talking about how you feel, if you really like this collection of bottle caps you've been keeping. That ship is over.

That ship has sailed out to harbor. We are now creating a life that I'm going to have to inhabit because you're going to be gone.

That ship has sailed out to harbor. We are now creating a life that I'm going to have to inhabit because you're going to be gone.

That ship has sailed out to harbor. We are now creating a life that I'm going to have to inhabit because you're going to be gone.

yeah and that looks like making sure i got a home with four walls on it and i can pay bills right and some of it you're going to i i i remember sitting with um um somebody that i care about deeply and i was helping them and their house was full of stuff and i was trying to help them throw that throw it away this is several years ago and i just finally stopped and looked at him and said i need you to hear me say this

yeah and that looks like making sure i got a home with four walls on it and i can pay bills right and some of it you're going to i i i remember sitting with um um somebody that i care about deeply and i was helping them and their house was full of stuff and i was trying to help them throw that throw it away this is several years ago and i just finally stopped and looked at him and said i need you to hear me say this

yeah and that looks like making sure i got a home with four walls on it and i can pay bills right and some of it you're going to i i i remember sitting with um um somebody that i care about deeply and i was helping them and their house was full of stuff and i was trying to help them throw that throw it away this is several years ago and i just finally stopped and looked at him and said i need you to hear me say this

When you die, I'm going to throw all of this away. I can do it now, or I can do it when you're gone. And there was a long, long pause, and they said, you're going to have to do it when I'm gone. And I said, okay, I'm moving on with my day. I'm not going to spend another second here. I've already made that choice, but I'm not going to fight that in this moment. See what I'm saying?

When you die, I'm going to throw all of this away. I can do it now, or I can do it when you're gone. And there was a long, long pause, and they said, you're going to have to do it when I'm gone. And I said, okay, I'm moving on with my day. I'm not going to spend another second here. I've already made that choice, but I'm not going to fight that in this moment. See what I'm saying?

When you die, I'm going to throw all of this away. I can do it now, or I can do it when you're gone. And there was a long, long pause, and they said, you're going to have to do it when I'm gone. And I said, okay, I'm moving on with my day. I'm not going to spend another second here. I've already made that choice, but I'm not going to fight that in this moment. See what I'm saying?

Right. So here's what we're doing. We're reverse engineering this thing for the four walls. I hate to live like this, but this is the clock you've been given. I want to go 18 months and start working backwards. What does life look like? And you don't have to do a roof and siding and gutter. You don't have to do all that at the same time. We're going to price each one of those things out.

Right. So here's what we're doing. We're reverse engineering this thing for the four walls. I hate to live like this, but this is the clock you've been given. I want to go 18 months and start working backwards. What does life look like? And you don't have to do a roof and siding and gutter. You don't have to do all that at the same time. We're going to price each one of those things out.

Right. So here's what we're doing. We're reverse engineering this thing for the four walls. I hate to live like this, but this is the clock you've been given. I want to go 18 months and start working backwards. What does life look like? And you don't have to do a roof and siding and gutter. You don't have to do all that at the same time. We're going to price each one of those things out.

These things that we have to do so we can keep our house. These things that we have to do so we have transportation. You're going to have to have a job if you don't have any retirement.

These things that we have to do so we can keep our house. These things that we have to do so we have transportation. You're going to have to have a job if you don't have any retirement.