Dr. John Deloney

And how recent was the passing?

And how recent was the passing?

And how recent was the passing?

Is anything on fire right now?

Is anything on fire right now?

Is anything on fire right now?

I would wait. I would wait six months to a year if nothing's on fire. Because you're right. Every decision that you make relationally is going to be seen through a pair of glasses that are just covered in hurt right now. Hurt and fear. Okay. And it's going to be a series of, think of it this way. She has leaned on a pillar for her entire married life and that pillar is gone.

I would wait. I would wait six months to a year if nothing's on fire. Because you're right. Every decision that you make relationally is going to be seen through a pair of glasses that are just covered in hurt right now. Hurt and fear. Okay. And it's going to be a series of, think of it this way. She has leaned on a pillar for her entire married life and that pillar is gone.

I would wait. I would wait six months to a year if nothing's on fire. Because you're right. Every decision that you make relationally is going to be seen through a pair of glasses that are just covered in hurt right now. Hurt and fear. Okay. And it's going to be a series of, think of it this way. She has leaned on a pillar for her entire married life and that pillar is gone.

And the person, she may love him, trust him, think he's a good man, but she wiped your husband's booty, right? That's in her mind. And so there's going to be a level of trust establishment made through a bunch of teeny tiny consistent showing up over the next six months, over the next year. Very transparent. By the way, data is going to help, but it's not going to solve the fear problem right now.

And the person, she may love him, trust him, think he's a good man, but she wiped your husband's booty, right? That's in her mind. And so there's going to be a level of trust establishment made through a bunch of teeny tiny consistent showing up over the next six months, over the next year. Very transparent. By the way, data is going to help, but it's not going to solve the fear problem right now.

And the person, she may love him, trust him, think he's a good man, but she wiped your husband's booty, right? That's in her mind. And so there's going to be a level of trust establishment made through a bunch of teeny tiny consistent showing up over the next six months, over the next year. Very transparent. By the way, data is going to help, but it's not going to solve the fear problem right now.

Right now it's just all, she lost a lung and a leg and two chambers of her heart, right? Yeah. And so she's going to have to slowly realize that she can lean on him now.

Right now it's just all, she lost a lung and a leg and two chambers of her heart, right? Yeah. And so she's going to have to slowly realize that she can lean on him now.

Right now it's just all, she lost a lung and a leg and two chambers of her heart, right? Yeah. And so she's going to have to slowly realize that she can lean on him now.

That's math, right? Yeah. And I would like as, as close to writing it down with a crayon as you can. And this is, this is funny. I was on the phone with a 50 year old earlier today. Um, who's entering into slow down.

That's math, right? Yeah. And I would like as, as close to writing it down with a crayon as you can. And this is, this is funny. I was on the phone with a 50 year old earlier today. Um, who's entering into slow down.

That's math, right? Yeah. And I would like as, as close to writing it down with a crayon as you can. And this is, this is funny. I was on the phone with a 50 year old earlier today. Um, who's entering into slow down.

Here's the thing. This 50-year-old's heading in to buy a house. It's not an age thing, but heading in to buy a house, and I gave that exact wisdom. I said, listen, don't feel ashamed to ask the mortgage company to explain this to you as though you're a high school student. That's the exact language I used. And so a 74-year-old, he may have said for the last 30 years, I got it.

Here's the thing. This 50-year-old's heading in to buy a house. It's not an age thing, but heading in to buy a house, and I gave that exact wisdom. I said, listen, don't feel ashamed to ask the mortgage company to explain this to you as though you're a high school student. That's the exact language I used. And so a 74-year-old, he may have said for the last 30 years, I got it.