Dr. John Deloney
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I mean, you might have, but it was A, 10 years ago, and adults, regulated mature adults, have hard conversations. And if your mother, she's allowed to do what she wants to do with her money, and if she feels in her soul that you violated some sort of moral contract, so to the point that she's going to cut you out of 200 or 100-year-old family property, fine.
I mean, you might have, but it was A, 10 years ago, and adults, regulated mature adults, have hard conversations. And if your mother, she's allowed to do what she wants to do with her money, and if she feels in her soul that you violated some sort of moral contract, so to the point that she's going to cut you out of 200 or 100-year-old family property, fine.
I mean, you might have, but it was A, 10 years ago, and adults, regulated mature adults, have hard conversations. And if your mother, she's allowed to do what she wants to do with her money, and if she feels in her soul that you violated some sort of moral contract, so to the point that she's going to cut you out of 200 or 100-year-old family property, fine.
But yes, I agree with you that you're worth a conversation. There's a cowardly aspect to, I'm going to do this thing, but then I'm not going to have the courage to be open and honest about my values. I'm going to do it under the table.
But yes, I agree with you that you're worth a conversation. There's a cowardly aspect to, I'm going to do this thing, but then I'm not going to have the courage to be open and honest about my values. I'm going to do it under the table.
But yes, I agree with you that you're worth a conversation. There's a cowardly aspect to, I'm going to do this thing, but then I'm not going to have the courage to be open and honest about my values. I'm going to do it under the table.
I don't, but I'll trust you that you do. Here's the thing. All of this has happened, period, at the end of that sentence. The question that you have to answer is what are you going to do now? And here's a hard truth I'm going to give you. Every second that you choose to dwell on this is a choice for you to be miserable in the present and in the future. This has happened. Right.
I don't, but I'll trust you that you do. Here's the thing. All of this has happened, period, at the end of that sentence. The question that you have to answer is what are you going to do now? And here's a hard truth I'm going to give you. Every second that you choose to dwell on this is a choice for you to be miserable in the present and in the future. This has happened. Right.
I don't, but I'll trust you that you do. Here's the thing. All of this has happened, period, at the end of that sentence. The question that you have to answer is what are you going to do now? And here's a hard truth I'm going to give you. Every second that you choose to dwell on this is a choice for you to be miserable in the present and in the future. This has happened. Right.
And it's not cool, betrayal, whatever words you want to say, all those are real. Then the big question is what are you going to do now?
And it's not cool, betrayal, whatever words you want to say, all those are real. Then the big question is what are you going to do now?
And it's not cool, betrayal, whatever words you want to say, all those are real. Then the big question is what are you going to do now?
Yes, you are.
Yes, you are.
Yes, you are.
Okay, so great. I don't think you're being honest. I'm grateful for that. I don't think you're being honest with yourself. You are upset, and it's okay to be upset. And it may come a day when your sisters sell this to your daughter. That's a problem in the future. Right. That you have no control over. You have no control over it. Let's just exhale and say, I can feel my feelings.
Okay, so great. I don't think you're being honest. I'm grateful for that. I don't think you're being honest with yourself. You are upset, and it's okay to be upset. And it may come a day when your sisters sell this to your daughter. That's a problem in the future. Right. That you have no control over. You have no control over it. Let's just exhale and say, I can feel my feelings.
Okay, so great. I don't think you're being honest. I'm grateful for that. I don't think you're being honest with yourself. You are upset, and it's okay to be upset. And it may come a day when your sisters sell this to your daughter. That's a problem in the future. Right. That you have no control over. You have no control over it. Let's just exhale and say, I can feel my feelings.
I'm allowed to be sad. And my daughter's living with my parents. I miss my daughter. Maybe you want to repair that relationship, et cetera, move on, on, on, whatever. But let's stop trafficking in the here's the thing they did. Yes, what they did was not cool. I'm all about having values and I'm all about putting a stick in the ground.