Dr. John Deloney
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Is he refusing to do this, or have you all even not put that on the table?
You're okay.
You're okay.
You're okay.
Is he not willing to pay? He wasn't willing to help you?
Is he not willing to pay? He wasn't willing to help you?
Is he not willing to pay? He wasn't willing to help you?
That two wrongs don't make a right on that deal. And he said something he probably shouldn't have said or that I know he shouldn't have said. And that triggered stuff that you've heard from previous two marriages and any number of other years you've been on this planet. And you responded by saying, I'm going to take my ball and I'm going to go home then.
That two wrongs don't make a right on that deal. And he said something he probably shouldn't have said or that I know he shouldn't have said. And that triggered stuff that you've heard from previous two marriages and any number of other years you've been on this planet. And you responded by saying, I'm going to take my ball and I'm going to go home then.
That two wrongs don't make a right on that deal. And he said something he probably shouldn't have said or that I know he shouldn't have said. And that triggered stuff that you've heard from previous two marriages and any number of other years you've been on this planet. And you responded by saying, I'm going to take my ball and I'm going to go home then.
And now you got two people who are co-living in the same house. And here's what I want for you and for him. I want y'all to be married. Ride or die, both of us on the same roller coaster, ups and downs. And when you got a problem, we got a problem. And when you got a bill, we got a bill. And here's the deal.
And now you got two people who are co-living in the same house. And here's what I want for you and for him. I want y'all to be married. Ride or die, both of us on the same roller coaster, ups and downs. And when you got a problem, we got a problem. And when you got a bill, we got a bill. And here's the deal.
And now you got two people who are co-living in the same house. And here's what I want for you and for him. I want y'all to be married. Ride or die, both of us on the same roller coaster, ups and downs. And when you got a problem, we got a problem. And when you got a bill, we got a bill. And here's the deal.
The research tells me when you put both feet in the boat, both of you do, that over time, couples who are married well, their net worth collectively goes up exponentially, like compound interest in a wild way. That's why those of us in our society who are, I mean, you go look at the richest of the rich, they keep getting married, right? It's to their best interest.
The research tells me when you put both feet in the boat, both of you do, that over time, couples who are married well, their net worth collectively goes up exponentially, like compound interest in a wild way. That's why those of us in our society who are, I mean, you go look at the richest of the rich, they keep getting married, right? It's to their best interest.
The research tells me when you put both feet in the boat, both of you do, that over time, couples who are married well, their net worth collectively goes up exponentially, like compound interest in a wild way. That's why those of us in our society who are, I mean, you go look at the richest of the rich, they keep getting married, right? It's to their best interest.
And I know that's hard to do in the situation. So I think the best move is a hard, I always recommend people when they have a hard conversation, use an I statement. Like a couple of years ago when we first got married, I got my feelings hurt and I said, then you're never going to help me again. I'm not going to accept your help. And I was wrong and I'm sorry.
And I know that's hard to do in the situation. So I think the best move is a hard, I always recommend people when they have a hard conversation, use an I statement. Like a couple of years ago when we first got married, I got my feelings hurt and I said, then you're never going to help me again. I'm not going to accept your help. And I was wrong and I'm sorry.
And I know that's hard to do in the situation. So I think the best move is a hard, I always recommend people when they have a hard conversation, use an I statement. Like a couple of years ago when we first got married, I got my feelings hurt and I said, then you're never going to help me again. I'm not going to accept your help. And I was wrong and I'm sorry.
then hopefully he says, I shouldn't have said that too, right? But we're going to sit down and say, okay, we've both are healing from our past. And now let's both go all in. How bad is it for your financial situation? How bad is it for mine? I'm going to send you Financial Peace University, the course, the digital course for free, the nine lessons you and your husband can watch them together.