Dr. John Deloney

Okay, so here's the deal. Y'all signed a prenup that says, hey, what I'm coming into this marriage with, I'm going to keep. What you're coming into this marriage, you're going to keep, okay?

Okay, so here's the deal. Y'all signed a prenup that says, hey, what I'm coming into this marriage with, I'm going to keep. What you're coming into this marriage, you're going to keep, okay?

Okay, so here's the deal. Y'all signed a prenup that says, hey, what I'm coming into this marriage with, I'm going to keep. What you're coming into this marriage, you're going to keep, okay?

I want to go one step deeper, though. I'm telling you right now as somebody who works with married couples, your language is unnerving to me. And here's why. Y'all are not building a thing together. You're talking as business partners. In fact, you're not even talking as business partners do because business partners even talk about ours. You're talking about my income and his income.

I want to go one step deeper, though. I'm telling you right now as somebody who works with married couples, your language is unnerving to me. And here's why. Y'all are not building a thing together. You're talking as business partners. In fact, you're not even talking as business partners do because business partners even talk about ours. You're talking about my income and his income.

I want to go one step deeper, though. I'm telling you right now as somebody who works with married couples, your language is unnerving to me. And here's why. Y'all are not building a thing together. You're talking as business partners. In fact, you're not even talking as business partners do because business partners even talk about ours. You're talking about my income and his income.

His house and my house. My house and his house, and he pays for my house. That kind of language, I'm going to revise what I said. I don't think he's being a child. I think he's realizing how completely exposed he is. And like George said, he's paying rent to his wife. Y'all need to share a single checking account, and y'all pay for the mortgage every month.

His house and my house. My house and his house, and he pays for my house. That kind of language, I'm going to revise what I said. I don't think he's being a child. I think he's realizing how completely exposed he is. And like George said, he's paying rent to his wife. Y'all need to share a single checking account, and y'all pay for the mortgage every month.

His house and my house. My house and his house, and he pays for my house. That kind of language, I'm going to revise what I said. I don't think he's being a child. I think he's realizing how completely exposed he is. And like George said, he's paying rent to his wife. Y'all need to share a single checking account, and y'all pay for the mortgage every month.

And so I think he's calling that out. The data tells me that couples that share a checking account build wealth, greater wealth over time, period. It also shows that couples that share a checking account... quote unquote, may be more exposed, but that's marriage. It's both of us with both feet in the same boat. And the reality is when you marry somebody, they can hurt you.

And so I think he's calling that out. The data tells me that couples that share a checking account build wealth, greater wealth over time, period. It also shows that couples that share a checking account... quote unquote, may be more exposed, but that's marriage. It's both of us with both feet in the same boat. And the reality is when you marry somebody, they can hurt you.

And so I think he's calling that out. The data tells me that couples that share a checking account build wealth, greater wealth over time, period. It also shows that couples that share a checking account... quote unquote, may be more exposed, but that's marriage. It's both of us with both feet in the same boat. And the reality is when you marry somebody, they can hurt you.

and they choose every day to love you. And that's the way this thing works. And so if there's great wealth inequality when someone's getting married, then I'm okay with a prenup. And I've even come around with some different ideas on a prenup, that's for a whole nother call.

and they choose every day to love you. And that's the way this thing works. And so if there's great wealth inequality when someone's getting married, then I'm okay with a prenup. And I've even come around with some different ideas on a prenup, that's for a whole nother call.

and they choose every day to love you. And that's the way this thing works. And so if there's great wealth inequality when someone's getting married, then I'm okay with a prenup. And I've even come around with some different ideas on a prenup, that's for a whole nother call.

But I'm telling you right now, you guys have got to begin to be on the same page and sharing money and filing jointly together. Otherwise, you're just great business partners who share a house.

But I'm telling you right now, you guys have got to begin to be on the same page and sharing money and filing jointly together. Otherwise, you're just great business partners who share a house.

But I'm telling you right now, you guys have got to begin to be on the same page and sharing money and filing jointly together. Otherwise, you're just great business partners who share a house.

What was the payout at the very, very end when they give you part of your own money back?

What was the payout at the very, very end when they give you part of your own money back?