Dr. John Deloney

Of course. But listen, you don't get any say into her budget. You don't get any say into where she lives and where she works. That stinks, but you just don't, right? Yeah, I know. Man, I can't even imagine being in the situation you're in. But just because it hurts doesn't mean it's wrong. You don't have a pain-free path forward here.

You have to choose the one that's going to hurt and also lead you to where you want to be, which is right now a safe place for your daughter and your bleeding cash that you don't have. And have you grieved your husband's loss?

You have to choose the one that's going to hurt and also lead you to where you want to be, which is right now a safe place for your daughter and your bleeding cash that you don't have. And have you grieved your husband's loss?

You have to choose the one that's going to hurt and also lead you to where you want to be, which is right now a safe place for your daughter and your bleeding cash that you don't have. And have you grieved your husband's loss?

Okay. it's um it's us yeah you know and he would he would probably he's rolling over in his grave seeing me give our money it's okay hey you went through a period of having to survive and you're still breathing and you're good and now we're going to start making some some harder and firmer and more um safe and rational choices right

Okay. it's um it's us yeah you know and he would he would probably he's rolling over in his grave seeing me give our money it's okay hey you went through a period of having to survive and you're still breathing and you're good and now we're going to start making some some harder and firmer and more um safe and rational choices right

Okay. it's um it's us yeah you know and he would he would probably he's rolling over in his grave seeing me give our money it's okay hey you went through a period of having to survive and you're still breathing and you're good and now we're going to start making some some harder and firmer and more um safe and rational choices right

Yeah. Forgive yourself, man. My life would end if my wife passed away. It would stop. And I would hope to give myself some grace on what I did the next few months. I can't even wrap my head around that. So give yourself some grace. You've been trying to keep your family afloat as it's kind of drifting apart from you.

Yeah. Forgive yourself, man. My life would end if my wife passed away. It would stop. And I would hope to give myself some grace on what I did the next few months. I can't even wrap my head around that. So give yourself some grace. You've been trying to keep your family afloat as it's kind of drifting apart from you.

Yeah. Forgive yourself, man. My life would end if my wife passed away. It would stop. And I would hope to give myself some grace on what I did the next few months. I can't even wrap my head around that. So give yourself some grace. You've been trying to keep your family afloat as it's kind of drifting apart from you.

I'm proud of you, okay?

I'm proud of you, okay?

I'm proud of you, okay?

And now you've got to put your oxygen mask on and make sure you're in a stable enough place so that if you do end up having to take custody over this little granddaughter or whatever you choose to do or your child comes home, whatever you've got to do, you're going to be in a more stable place to do that.

And now you've got to put your oxygen mask on and make sure you're in a stable enough place so that if you do end up having to take custody over this little granddaughter or whatever you choose to do or your child comes home, whatever you've got to do, you're going to be in a more stable place to do that.

And now you've got to put your oxygen mask on and make sure you're in a stable enough place so that if you do end up having to take custody over this little granddaughter or whatever you choose to do or your child comes home, whatever you've got to do, you're going to be in a more stable place to do that.

Okay. I'm proud of you. And, George, the one thing I always tell parents in this situation is don't – Don't pull a gotcha, meaning if you've been giving money for month after month after month after month and it's up to thousands of dollars, in my opinion, that warrants a conversation, not just an overnight cutoff, right?

Okay. I'm proud of you. And, George, the one thing I always tell parents in this situation is don't – Don't pull a gotcha, meaning if you've been giving money for month after month after month after month and it's up to thousands of dollars, in my opinion, that warrants a conversation, not just an overnight cutoff, right?

Okay. I'm proud of you. And, George, the one thing I always tell parents in this situation is don't – Don't pull a gotcha, meaning if you've been giving money for month after month after month after month and it's up to thousands of dollars, in my opinion, that warrants a conversation, not just an overnight cutoff, right?

Because somebody has begun to lean on that money and you have shown up time and time and time again, it's worth a conversation and that can be an uncomfortable one.