Dr. John Deloney

Your kids aren't a burden. He signed up for that. You don't got to apologize for him or take on more just out of this thing, this guilt. Like he signed up for it. He married you and you came with four kids.

And so you don't have to walk in already wincing to a conversation.

And so you don't have to walk in already wincing to a conversation.

And so you don't have to walk in already wincing to a conversation.

Okay. Then that points to a bigger challenge in your marriage beyond finances.

Okay. Then that points to a bigger challenge in your marriage beyond finances.

Okay. Then that points to a bigger challenge in your marriage beyond finances.

I'll go with you to this Dave Ramsey class for you to get your crap together. And you send me your budget and I'll review it for you.

I'll go with you to this Dave Ramsey class for you to get your crap together. And you send me your budget and I'll review it for you.

I'll go with you to this Dave Ramsey class for you to get your crap together. And you send me your budget and I'll review it for you.

But I mean, let's be honest. You knew that when you married him.

But I mean, let's be honest. You knew that when you married him.

But I mean, let's be honest. You knew that when you married him.

Yeah, he didn't just start avoiding feelings and things after you married him, right?

Yeah, he didn't just start avoiding feelings and things after you married him, right?

Yeah, he didn't just start avoiding feelings and things after you married him, right?

Then if he did, then here's the deal. Then I think you put that on the table. But at some point, you're going to have to either confront the fact that he won't talk to you or share his life with you or in any way be engaged with you at all about him. He's just serving as a dad to you. Or you're going to have to make peace with this is the guy I married and this is the world I have.

Then if he did, then here's the deal. Then I think you put that on the table. But at some point, you're going to have to either confront the fact that he won't talk to you or share his life with you or in any way be engaged with you at all about him. He's just serving as a dad to you. Or you're going to have to make peace with this is the guy I married and this is the world I have.

Then if he did, then here's the deal. Then I think you put that on the table. But at some point, you're going to have to either confront the fact that he won't talk to you or share his life with you or in any way be engaged with you at all about him. He's just serving as a dad to you. Or you're going to have to make peace with this is the guy I married and this is the world I have.

One of those two things has to be true. Both will be hard.