Dr. Julie Gottman
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to look away.
But a female doesn't typically.
And here's why.
Because, you know, as women from, you know, this high, we are trained to relate to others, to nurture others, to take care of others, right?
to be sensitive to others' feelings.
So we don't give ourselves permission to break contact and look away.
So what flooding for a woman looks like is very different.
It looks like this.
And you're just kind of staring.
Nobody's home.
No one's home.
Nobody's home.
Blank face.
That's right.
You may be meeting the other person's eyes, but nobody's home.
You've taken yourself out.
Yeah.
Let me just mention that the shifting that you are pointing out, which is very astute, is what we call repair.
Okay.
So making a repair during...